I'm just curious what guys think about fingering a girl. My boyfriend and I got into a long talk about our sexual preferences the other day and he said he wouldn't finger me because he loves me. He said it would seem wrong and like he's defiling me. I know he fingered his previous girlfriend but he genuinely thinks it would be wrong to finger me. So, what do you guys think about fingering? Do you think its a good/fun thing to do or do you feel the way my boyfriend does?
I love it. I want to make the girl happy and that is a good way to do so.
Tell him you enjoy it (or think you would) and he should want to make you happy. You could also remind him its probably better than sex. He uses his hands to hold you, hug you and massage you. What makes this so wrong.
I'm just guessing but what happened with him & his first girl to make him feel that way? So now you know that he loves you, but why does he think it's wrong? Hmmmm What can you say to him? Please I love you can you explain more as to why? I think it is fun & safe between two people that love each other & the girl is o.k. with it. I read that you are so Hmmmm Just not sure why he won't. I still say his ex has something or said something to make him feel this way.
Hmmm. I think fingering is great fun. I like to get it and give it when I can. Whatever 2 consenting adults do with each other is perfectly right if nobody gets hurt.
i don't think fingering someone means anything. I've never heard of that. fingering is FUN. well can be fun. until you have a person who doesn't know what the f*** they are doing!
My boyfriend says he really likes to finger me because he knows I enjoy it and loves to make me happy. He doesn't see anything wrong with it and says it is safer then sex. (which we won't be having for awhile) Talk to your boyfriend about it and find out why he thinks it is wrong. If no one has ever done this to you he might not want to take a bit of your "innocence" away.
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