1 month ago I was raped by my boyfriend's best friend @ a party.What should I tell my 2 year boyfriend .Should I just say I got raped by a stranger or his best friend.How do I tell my parents.I NEED ADVICE!.Should I wait a couple of months till I tell them.
Why would you lie about who raped you? I am sorry but that doesn't make sense. I'd suggest telling the police, your parents AND your boyfriend the TRUTH. You gotta put it out there for them. DO IT NOW.
Don't wait. This needs to come out in the open now. You haven't done anything wrong. You have your reasons for not telling about the rape after it happened but now that there's a pregnancy involved you have little choice.
Your parents are the first to be told. Simply tell your story. They will probably want to call the police and you will have to take it from there. You may even want to have your boyfriend there when you tell your parents so everyone is in the loop at the same time.
You have two connected issues to deal with here; the rape and the pregnancy. Some tough decisions are going to have to be made. Whatever choices you have to make, be honest with yourself and everyone around you. Don't lie about anything, even if it makes you look bad in the short-term.
She should tell the police, you're reasoning makes no sense - that guy RAPED her! Advising someone not to tell the police is allowing rapists to get away with it. Do you like helping rapists? - A month ago
Sounds to me like you need a meeting with boyfriend, parents, and the police dept. Should have gone to the police immediatly so they could get the dna proof they would need, but in your case now the baby will provide that information.
does anyone else know about the rape? it seems you haven't told anyone yet from the way you worded your question. if you didn't tell anyone. you should contact the police first off. I mean they can't do anything about it now. secondly. I would sit both your parents and boyfriend down and explain to him. they will help you and understand if they love you!
Dont say you got raped by a stranger because that will lead to more problems tell the truth you should tell your parents first and then tell your boyfriend. Your parents and him should understand since you were raped by him. And your boyfriend is gonna have trouble with his buddy for a while though. But be sure to tell the truth it will help my sister went throught the same thing just tell your parents how it happened DONT BE SCARED! it will help you out if you tell the truth saying a stanger did it wouldn't be very smart because they will find out about the father of your baby
Oooo....o.k thanks a lot for your advice.....do you think I should tell my parents soon or wait a while how should I tell tthem...tell them that I got raped and ended pregnat or tell them that I'm pregnat because I got raped - 2 months ago
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You should tell your parents before its too late. It will cause more problems. And they would be mad if you didn't come to them before - 2 months ago
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Hmm the best idea would be to say something like, Just stay calm and tell your parents everything, be sure to tell them everything start off by saying something like: Mom, dad? Um, I gotta tell you that has happened to me, then you start explaining from there. Dont worry same thing happened to me but it was my stepdad. He raped me and I came staight out and told my mom. - 2 months ago
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