whenever I want to make out with my boyfriend I am always the one that has to start like, kissing him and everything, which make me feel like he doesn't really want to but I KNOW he does but it just feel like he is not really into it as much as I am. And when we are like, making out or anything I am the dominate one in bed. I'm like ontop and everythingg. I kind of want to just feel like, he is in control sometimse. how do I make him the dominate one?!
Some guys have a problem doing this because they think it's disrespectful to women. Especially younger guys. You really have to let him know that it's okay for him to initiate and lead the action and that you'll let him know if you're uncomfortable.