Guys, why is anal sex something you want to do? Oral sex is understandable, but not anal.
Girls, is anal sex bad or good? Is Oral gross or pleasent for you?
My boyfriend keeps on trying to get me to do both of these. Anal sex is weird to me since its more of an. exit than entrance, but that's something he really wants to do. And with oral sex, no offence to guys, but your penis's are a little weird lookin, so I really don't want to do that. Oral sex is mainly because I don't want to hurt him or have it turn out embaressing.
So, any advice? I'm willing to do either for him, but am hesitant about everything.
Well, Money was right about the pregnancy thing. A guy can orgasm inside the woman without a great fear of pregnancy. Babygurl was right about the tighter feeling. Some women actually enjoy anal sex and can even get off on it. It depends on certain lubes used, since some actually numb the nerve endings and pain receptors. Also the position can play a role in it as well. Here is where size matters since it is easier to stick something small into a tight opening as opposed to something large into the same tight opening.
Why do guys like it. probably because we want what we can't have. Also, there is the thought there is no chance of pregnancy.
Most guys will understand about not wanting to do anal sex. Oral sex is actually quite normal though. at least amongst everyone I know. You gotta get over the "weird looking" thought. I mean I don't think any guy is out there screaming that penises are a beautiful thing. I don't think you would hurt him while trying anal. but if you are worried practice in private on something. I know it sounds weird but grab a banana run to your room and just see what its like.
Anal is gross no matter the situation or circumstance and anyone that messes with that is gross too and are mixed up on the design and purpose of each part of the human body. I think that guys that wanna do anal have something missing in their heads and have some prev or shitty stuff in its place. Oral is pleasant for me. My boyfriend does it good and I love it and so does he.
I have no idea why guys try to pressure us into doing anal, yea I understand oral, but not anal, I mean I tried it like 3 times but it hurts me like crazy I always make him stop. Guys like I guess because the hole is tighter and I guess all that cushioning makes it feel good or what ever. Some girls I know though don't mind having anal I guess once you really get use to it, I just can't though, it grosses me out knowing that's the poopie entrance and he still wants to do it. If you find your comfortable with it, its not a bad thing. Its just something I don't like to do.