In my experience, most guys prefer girls to be ladylike in public, but, umm, "open-minded" in the bedroom. By "open-minded", I mean willing to experiment and play with different things and roles and techniques in bed, to find what gets her partner most excited. That's a little different than "kinky" -- which at least to me suggests that a girl is into one particular fetish. Unless a guy is into exactly the same fetish, I think guys are looking more for "open-minded" girls, who will try all kinds of things in bed. That's my two cents.
sweetpea
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Amen to that. guys are actually shy about how freaky they want to get. Most of the time the guy is up for anything if you say it! I was the same way. I didn't realize I'd be like that but. what can I say..ha..but yeah they love it! why wouldn't they!
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