I have a 17yr old nephew and it makes me wanna cry to know he's not a virgin anymore, don't do it until you're 100% ready and be forewarned, a girl loosing her virginity will suck, no matter what, no matter how romantic and "perfect" it is, it'll suck, so now that my motherly thing is out of the way... lol... I love men, mmm big strong, can dead lift my big ass lol, yeah I love it but I don't always see myself being with a guy, I have to be in the mood to want "boy parts" have you ever thought about being with a girl? If so it doesn't mean right away that you're a lesbian or bi it just means that's a body that you know, it's a comfort zone. You might just be building it up in your head sweety, it's really no big deal, just stop and think, what is it that makes you attracted to men in the first place, and how that makes you feel, then try thinking about the same thing but about women, do you have the same thoughts or reactions? You're still young, even if in a year you'll be seen as an adult, you're still young lol, hell I'm 25 and still wonder about things like that. It's not strange, you're just human, and a female, we're wired just a bit differently lol
Thanks so much! That helped :)
You're perfectly normal and just not ready. You will be tin time so don't worry. You aren't strange or weird or anything, you're just you. I used to be that way too and considered myself asexual for years. I didn't force myself to be okay with the idea of sex or anything like that. I just naturally became more comfortable with the idea of it. Now I've actually been having dreams about having sex with dudes. So my subconscious is aware that I really want to have sex now haha.
be in time*
Thanks! I think it's the vulnerability of it that makes it hard for me, just thinking about being naked in front of a guy is intimidating. . .I guess if I find someone I really like this won't be such a problem :)
Yeah you'll feel much better about it in time. Being naked in front of someone would definitely be uncomfortable and awkward but if it's with the right person I'm sure your inhibitions and insecurities will be shed.
it's not weird at all.
You're still young. Give it some time. It's also possible that you're not THAT attracted to the guy.
In my case, I can never imagine myself making love with a guy I'm not in love with even if I DO find him somewhat attractive.
Thanks! I agree, I think I'll be way more comfortable with the idea once I find a guy I love : )
No, it is not weird. Sexually speaking you have some maturing to do. Many girls start having sexual contact with males in their preteen years. Others not until their twenties. There is a sort of natural progression that takes place. If you have not had a history of seeing, touching, and being touched by boys then sexually speaking the idea of intercourse is probably a bit of a large step for you to imagine. It is not something to worry about. Sexual naivety is easily cured, when your interests turn that way. :)
Thank you so much! I've kissed a guy and I dance with guys, but that's about it so I guess what you say makes sense :)
> Many girls start having sexual contact with males in their preteen years. In the first half of their teens, perhaps, but I doubt there are 'many' girls who start having sex between the ages of 9 and 12 :p
Be patient, don't be too shy, and your time will come. :)
I can't picture myself doing a lot of things and then it happens. Maybe we are just weird :D
guess so lol
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lol too much abs that's funny...
Nothing strange about it. If you have no prior experience, how can you really imagine it, anyway? I can relate because I'm in the same boat! Lol
Haha, good to know I'm not alone, guess I'll just give it time :)
same here! I can imagine kissing guys even though I haven't but I've seen a million kisses. Unless you watch p*rn you wouldn't be able to picture sex.
Huh, good point. Maybe I should, just for curiosity's sake.
i am super horny but I always feel so intimidated around guys...but I guess I'll mature.
Try picturing yourself with a girl
Nope, that's even more unimaginable to me. I've never felt attracted to a girl, I'd much rather be in the arms of a guy :)
Yeah, me too! ;)
LOL,sweet
Haha, you'll probably change your views once you meet a good guy and actually have sex.
That's what I think :)
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