My boyfriend wants me to lose my virginity but everyone tells me I'm too young. I know for everyone it is different but about what age do you think a girl should be when they lose it? Give me a range please. :D
I know that you're looking for an age hun, but to be honest, that's the wrong answer. It all depends on the person. But to be honest, if your boyfriend is pressuring you that much, you need to tell him to back off. He should like you for WHO you are, not WHAT you have. It is your body, and you are in control of it. If he turns out to be a total jerk, or you guys break up shortly after, then you will be upset at yourself for doing it. Never be afraid to wait and be patient.
Don't do it just for the sake of doing it. Do it because it feels right and when you are ready for it and for HEAVENS SAKE USE PROTECTION. when you finally do it. If you are looking for a specific age that's hard to do because men and women mature at different rates. Not all men are as mature at 20 as some women at 18. I was almost 21 when I lost my virginity so its not really an age thing. I would say between 20 and 22 would be a good age range.
When you're ready, you'll know. I'm personally not one to condemn others for doing it before marriage, especially as I doubt I'd resist if the opportunity arose with someone I cared for, but there are also many benefits to waiting until marriage. It's up to you, and I think I've said something like this before, you can listen to thousands of opinions, make a decision, and still be unhappy with it. You have to make the decision yourself.
18 and up, but I'd personally say 20 and up. There are so many reasons to wait, but unfortunately you may not understand or agree with them until you've already done it.
There are two components to sex: physical and emotional. There's no doubt that at 17, you're capable of the physical aspect--you are reaching physical maturity. However, at 17, you probably are not ready to embrace the emotional commitments that sex includes, especially for a girl. It can bring up complex emotions that you didn't know existed. If you don't stay with your current boyfriend, you may find yourself jealous of his next lover.
So, whichever route you choose, think very carefully about the possible outcomes, and never let anyone pressure you into doing anything.
Your age shouldn't matter when you're talking about this, personally, I would say to wait and when the time comes, it'll happen. It's not what your boyfriend wants, it's what you want. Good luck. :]
When you are financially ready and willing to act full responsibility for your actions; then your ready, so to answer your question, there is no age range if you can deal with the consequences head on.
U can lose it when U are ready,but do U really wanna lose it this soon? I personally think if one day I lose it on some wrong guy I will blame myself for the rest of my life. Do it when U know U won't regret it.
For me I say wait till your married because if you do this guy the next day he might dump you then that would be for nothing wait till you get married so you have sex with the guy you love.
Okay well I was 13 when I lost mine and trust me I wish I could go back now and wait but I would think if you are over the age of 15 and if you have been with your other half for more than 6 months and he is not pressuring you than go for it. But don't do anything at any age that you don't think you are ready for.
