One day at work I was talking to this girl Mercedes and she was telling me about her boyfriend and while they were having sex he almost screamed out "Bitch" so she slapped him. and told him that that wasn't very sexy. And I told her that it depended. Which I think it does. but whatever.
So I was telling this to my best friend Taylor and she thought the same thing as Mercedes. Both of them thought I was this type of freak with the whips and chains and stuff. But neither of them suspected it because I never really talk about sex and I'm classified as "innocent" and "cute" Which I think is a plus because when I have sex with a guy he'd be surprised. But I just think that sex doesn't always have to be so sweet. So am I a perv or is it just my sexual preference?
Update: Is this a bad thing or is a good thing. Like if someone you were interested had a "kinky side" would you still be interested?
2 months ago
It's just your sexual preference, to be honest I have the same idea. It's just that you like to be dominated which is understandable. It's typically strong, independent people that like things like this (typically called Dominatrix) because it makes them feel weak or powerless for once. It doesn't matter what other people think, there's no reason to be ashamed or not share your ideas on sex. Don't be afraid to tell them your into kinky things, like whips and chains (personally I prefer a type of bondage). I believe you in the idea that sex doesn't always have to be sweet and loving, it can also be rough and loving XD
I think it ok, as long as the two people understand it just sex talk. If this is the first time he has done something like that then I could see where she could be a little surprised, but not offended. I like dirty talk during sex. Not a whole conversation. I once had one girl tell me to shut up & just keep effin me.
20 years ago or more, to call a woman a bitch meant that person got a bar of soap shoved in his mouth. NOW today, things have changed, women wear clothes that say "bitch and proud of it!" frankly, by embracing the term "bitch", women degrade themselves, so why be suprised when men agrea with women?
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