i'm dating a guy who is a virgin. and I'm not. I'm like far more sexually active then he is. in fact, I was his first kiss 2 week ago. I don't know if he even wants to have sex before marriage, or what. and I just find it awkward that he has no idea what to do. any advice?
unfortunately your going to have to deal with the fact that he knows squat about sex.he'll probably pretend to though. Chances are- he'll ejaculate in 2 minutes. the best thing you can do is make the foreplay real long. have him touch you all over.you'll probably have to show him where your clit is and how to touch it, otherwise he'll have no idea. You will have to show him how you like to be touched and what you like best. If he's smart, he'll do a little research himself. As unromantic as it may seem, your going to have to be his sex teacher.and in a sense you all are.each woman is different and requires different types of stimulation.albeit there are certain things that are basically similar in all woman, ya'll are pretty unique, and wonderfull. You'll probably have to tell him not to squash your breasts aswell.
Before you make assumptions like "no sex before marriage" on his part, talk to him.
You don't have to make this a big deal. Is this some sort of "sex-only" relationship to you?
If you guys end up having sex, you gotta trust him. You can't criticise him because that will mostly likely piss him off. I am sure he has more trust in you with the whole sex situation than you'd have on him, considering he's a virgin.
talk to him about it see if he's ready it doesn't have to be this big weird thing you could just be like so are you waiting for marriage or what or you could be more playful with it and kinda just move things along and if he's not ready he'll stop you
and if you guys do have sex.dont expect much dont expect him to even get it up at first and once he doesn it'll probably be over before you know it most virgins seem 2 be that way
but remember he's going to be really nervouse so no matter how much it sucks be really really nive about it. like joke about it afterwords like there's is NO way your a virgin u know help his ego i've even known gives to fake an orgasm for their guys so they won't hurt their feelings and in due time it should get better
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