I slept with an ex last night who I haven't been with or seen in a while. We started talking again (just as friends) recently. While we were making out he was totally turned on. Then when we went upstairs and we were getting our clothes off and as we started going at it, he started to go kinda soft. He is in REALLY good shape and I am not sloppy fat but have a few extra pounds (i've had 3 kids) but carry my weight well (from what other people tell me). I am very self conscious about my body but I do feel confident about my looks. So I know I turned him on because he says I'm sexy. But I get real self conscious with guys with close to perfect bodies. I feel like if I'm not the perfect little flat-bellied, perky breast, no cellulite kind of woman, then it is a turn off. He did finally get it up and we went at it no problem and he finished pretty quick so am I just getting too worried for probaly nothing? Guys be honest with your answers please I can handle it ;) Also he had been drinking and was a bit buzzed. could've it been that?
Don't worry about it. A guy's not going to be rock-hard at all times during sexual activity. In fact, if he thought you were especially hot he might have felt a bit overwhelmed and that could cause him to go a bit soft. But really it's no big deal. The equipment isn't always going to operate a max capacity, no matter how lovely a woman his or how much a guy is turned on.
Yes drinking can hinder things. Also another thing that can hinder sex is a touch of ED. My ex is 37 and he has that problem. It takes him longer to get hard than when he was a young buck. Biology can do that. I'm sure you are just fine.
(Age:30 to 35)
When: 2 months ago
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