Ok straight to the point. I don't get horny anymore! I feel bad for my fiance because we haven't had sex in a while. I know it's not imp, and my fiance isn't complaining, but I feel bad. There are times he would try to put me in the mood, but it doesn't work. I don't get turned on. It has nothing to do with him, I think. He is still the sexiest man ever. We did it the other night, but I really wasn't into it. It's so mean to say, but I did fake a little. I know he noticed because I wasn't as wet as I usually get. Is it my age? Stress? Or, am I bored? I want to be able to satisfy my man again, and get myself in the mood, I just don't know how anymore.
I think a cause of this could be how I see myself lately. I feel so ugly, and unattractive. When my libido was up, I used to FEEL sexy. Nothing really changed, physically, but I feel ugly. Even if people tell me I'm sexy or whatever, it doesn't change the way I see myself. And I think that is why I can't get in the mood. Help :(
Men and women have one thing in common that most of them are not aware of. Their largest sexual organ is their brain. Sex is 99 percent in the head. You need to find out what's gone wrong with your head and fix it. By way of proof of my above statement you can have a tremendous orgasm while sound asleep if you are having the right dream. And nobody even touched you. Or you can have actual sex in a bad situation and not even get wet. For example rape. Sex is in the mind.
If getting wet / manoevures on the bed decide one actually ve satisfied and feel satisfied then this is not should be the case. rather love your time on bed, whre ever you are . it will make you feel good and enjoy the moment. rather than feeling ugly and unattractive to oneself, see your fiance has any problem with this.,you will remain the same for him as before & always . engage your mind into something else
Well, why do you feel ugly and unattractive? It seems that the obvious simple answer is that you need to address the issue that is making you feel ugly cause as you said, people can tell you that you're the sexiest, but that' snot gonna change a thing, unless you confront that which you believe is making you unattractive.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 2 months ago
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