As opposed to manual or oral stimulation? Are any of you familiar with the Taoist penetration techniques, and are they appreciated? Shallow thrusting, 9-1, circles, PC pumping, etc. What about rough, or sweet?
Thanks for the input!
Update: where was I.ahem. this goes out to I love legs: Yeah so.I agree that lovemaking shouldn't be technical when your doing it, but there is some technique involved, nonetheless. These techniques enhance intimacy.but it may take you a few years yet.
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I'm very very very very VERY lucky. I orgasm ridiculously quickly and through most types of stimulation. Generally I have one position that works every time though and I use it regularly...
Well, I believe it. So I guess the question is how? I'd love to bring these pleasures to my new found lady friend, however, she only know clitoral orgasm. She has orgasmed 3 times with me, through intercourse, but we've made love, at leas 40 times so far...so its not a great average. I believe she's had a blended clit and g-spot orgasm on a few occasions. But how do G-spot orgasms work for you. and deeper vaginal orgasms. Anal...well she's not interested in that! danke schon! (thanks) - More than a year ago
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No matter how you try, some woman just can not have a G-spot or vaginal O. When I've had the G-spot I've always been in missionary position. The most effective way is when I've got my legs up over his shoulders, and I'm bent almost double. It makes the front wall of the vagina way easier to stimulate. Other then that position you just have to make sure your member is rubbing the front wall of her vagina. - More than a year ago
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Ok, well, every girl is different. For most women to get off, they are like a complex piece of machinery. I mean, it has to be the right mood, the right moment, the right guy, even the right temperature in the room for goodness sakes for women to climax.
And, I am one of the few (or so I've been told by experts, etc.) that can orgasm during sexual intercourse alone. But only if it is in a certain position (for me personally)
But, like I said, every single girl is different. We're like snowflakes, there's never two the same. So it's just trial and error. And talking to the girl and see if she knows what she likes/wants, or to just experiment. But no particular technique is a definite sure way to make a girl orgasm.
I like a variation of everything. Lucky for me my fiance is very good at switching it up without cumming too quickly. The best way for me to get off though is if I am on top. I love being on top.
okay, can't say I know what any of those names are buttt my ex used to loove giving me oral and he would be soft with his tongue and he would use his fingers at the same time. DON't go to hard if you're doing both at the same time cause that's one thing I couldn't stand, I would start hurting and then I wouldn't even want him to keep going cause it just wasnt fun anymore! this is the same if you are only fingering (no oral). Its perfectly find to add another finger or go a little deeper just keep an eye on how she reacts and ask if more or harder is better, cause it isn't always!
I personally am married to a woman that is very difficult to make orgasm.and I am pleased to say.I work very hard to try and get her there as often as possible. But I don't know about the Taoist thing, but I wish more women would try to find other methods that might help them more suseptable to reaching orgasm more quickly.
I don't think women realize how emotionally challenging it is to a guy if he is not able to get his woman to orgasm. Maybe not all men think about this, but a lot of us do. It bothers us just as much not to satisfy our women as it does a woman not being able to satisfy her man.
OMG you make this sound so complicated and technical! Like where's my sex ed dictionary? But wait, those wouldn't be in there. lol! Having sex was designed to be done out of love aqnd done naturally. Not like a game play stragety.
I'm agree with ya dude...however, to enhance intimacy the taoists invented all sorts of ways to get variation on sex, so boredom doesn't step in, dig? See, when you've made love many, many times, it really helps to explore different aspects of love making, to continually make it interesting. Not to say that you're (specifically you) are not a great lover (all guys usually think their the best, that's a fact) you may realize there's more to it, than the ol' in and out. to be cont... - More than a year ago
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Oh yeah I do, but what I was getting at is that most sexual pleasure in comes from the brain. It puts meaning into what a person does much more than the technicalities and is what makes doing sexuala thing the most fun and enjoyable.... for most all people. - More than a year ago
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Yeah! I hear you, sexual pleasure comes from the brain. My point is this: We can play a musical instrument really well,and we love doing so. We may have no technical knowledge of it, but naturally we make pleasing sounds. However, when you have great musical training you're able to create a lot more variation in your music making and as a result, more enjoyment (which comes from the brain too) and less boredom. Your not playing the same notes all the time, there's a little variation. dig? - More than a year ago
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Ok, I heard on TV yesterday that a newly weds chances of ending in divorce is now 51% and it keeps climbing. Do you think this is caused by the couples poor sexual techniques, or maybe because they might have gotten tired and bored with all the technique stuff and wanted and needed much more love and commitment to go with it? What I'm saying is that all this fancy tehnique stuff you talk about isn't necessary unless you're only interested in a very short term relationships. Dig it? - More than a year ago
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Well I totally disagree with you. I don't think couples getting divorced has anything to do with sex technique. While I think technique is a good thing to have in a lover, I'm not dense enough to believe those things have meaning without love for the person your with. The very wish, to pleasure your partner and to sexually satisfy her will make the relationship that much stronger and vice versa. So better sex technique may actually be responsible for better marriages. can't you see that? - More than a year ago
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Yes and no, ok! I'm not as stupid as you think. Of course good sexual techniques comes into play, but I wasn't talking about the difference between a dead man and a live one. What I said still stands but I totally understand where you're coming from. I don't think our grandparents were too much informed with the fancy techniques you speak of and those are the ones that have been married yearsss and with large families. Our basic sexual instincts of love guide us as to what to do best . - More than a year ago
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Yeah ok, but our grandparents weren't together necessarily because of all the love, but could have been because of fear, stronger ties to religion, less emphasis on power and prestige, women staying at home a lot and not working, back then a womans place was at home, etc. etc.... a large majority of women don't have orgasms or may have never had orgasms due to their lovers ignorance of the anatomy of the vagina (i.e where the clitoris is). Most men are bad lovers, even today... - More than a year ago
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OMG whatever! I'm sure on the internet you'll find 1000 ways to do it just right so that you and your partner won't miss out on any fun. - More than a year ago
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You're in denial man! OMG! - More than a year ago
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Lol and so are you! See, your question was, "How many women out there orgasm through intercourse as opposed to oral or manual stimulation?" For some reason, we're both talking about technicalitils on both side. Okay, I'll say maybe three out of ten orgasm through intercourse alone. Studies, surveys, etc seem to indicate that women orgasm from oral much easier and far more frequently than from any other method. lol! So maybe men could use some help there. This has been an interesting. lol - More than a year ago
I agree that it should be done out of love but if a technique can give me an orgasm from penetration I would be all about it. "The very wish, to pleasure your partner and to sexually satisfy her will make the relationship that much stronger and vice versa." I think one of the main reasons a marriage fails from a woman's point of view is lack of effort from the man. You said, "Our basic sexual instincts of love guide us as to what to do best ." If this was true we would be completely satisfied by - More than a year ago
The person that we love just for the fact that they love us and want us to be satisfied. I will tell you this if brain power was all women needed to feel satisfied the adult toy industry would be out of business. You are wrong about the 3 out of 10 being achieved through penetration alone. Most women rarely or have never reached orgasm through penetration. Basically my opinion is that if a man learned a technique to help me reach orgasm through penetration it would be much appreciated. - More than a year ago
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