Too fast?

I think if you have these regrets after then you are not emotionally ready. You should wait until you are able to make a decision and then stick with it. And as always, if you have to come here and ask strangers whether or not to do something sexual, your probly not ready for sexual activity.

Trust your instincts.you are already answering your own question. Your mind is telling you that you know you are going to go farther with this guy if you keep allowing things to go the way they are going. And yet, you are also telling yourself that even though you are crazy about the guy, you need to slow things down, because you aren't ready to go there, no matter how good it feels.

So, Trust your instinct. If sex didn't feel great, we all wouldn't want to do it so much. But at the same time, Sex requires responsibility. There are a lot of things I would love to do when it comes to sex, but I have to constantly tell myself that I'm just not allowed, or it just isn't right. Sometimes we have to apply the brakes, even though our body is crying out for more, more, more. Trust me.if you are at this level already, you are going to go further.he is going to want more.it is the guy thing to want more.

I would have an honest talk with him about your feelings about him and also your feelings about sex. Be careful.it is hard to say no when your body is telling you yes. Good luck.

No, listen to and respect that part of you that's warning you that you're moving too fast. Once you start flowing down the sexual river because of fun and excitement or as party and games, it can become like being in a boat without a motor and you have only one small paddle and you're in a river that keeps flowing faster and faster so that you lose all control. While your good judgment motor is still running, and you're young and new like you are, just take all that stuff easy and slowly because if you don't, you'll become a slut before you know it. Don't ever be made to feel that not going with the flow is unpopular because more and more kids are starting to realize how much they're already fu*ked up their lives by losing their their self esteem and self respect. Once you feel totally ready and comfortable with yourself and your boyfriend, and are committed to each other with love and respect, then you can start thinking about moving on responsibly to the sexual part of your relationship. That's good that you were thinking like you were.

Me and my girlfriend were doing small sexual acts like fingering and handjobs shortly after 1 month and it didn't feel like we were moving too fast, but everyone is different. Talk to him and give it time, you should feel comfortable doing things like this, so wait until you are feeling ready. There is no rush.

talk to him about it.it's best if you do that.

1 month and him doing such a thing is NATURAL.
guys are very visual and sensual creatures although this is a bit fast there is no reason to panic, a slut would be a girl who willing throws herself at the guy for 1 night stands or even taking advantage of a guy's vulnerability.him going through a breakup etc. your NOT a slut and dun EVER think of yourself that way.

If you think you're moving too fast, that's a hint that you are. Proceed at a comfortable pace.

hey this is a month late lol.but ye I got the exact same problem and would like to know how its going, like are you guys still together and all? if you got any advice for me since you are technically a month ahead of me heh

If you think you're moving too fast you should tell him. But either way I think you should voice your concerns to him. If he doesn't know you feel this way then he won't be able to help much.
And you don't have to "return the favor" if you don't want to. Don't do something you aren't comfortable with.