My guy just found out that I was bisexual but I explained to him the reason was because of how I was treated in the past. Even if I explained this to him, will he think differently of me and will his feelings go away from me?
Update: Yes I do care about him.
More than a year ago
It's impossible to say, because I don't know him. But one thing is for sure: if he really has feelings for you, he should at least be willing to work through it with you.
purplemonster
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
He will be VERY confused by this news, and will need some time and a lot of patience from you to come to terms with it. I am sure hes also feeling insecure because he thinks you might leave him. I would do a lot of talking with him and be understanding if he has feelings that he might leave you.
If he loves you it wouldn't matter. For example my fiance prefers to date a straight girl but if I were to tell him I was bi (even thought I'm not) he would be ok with it because he respects me for who I am and your man should do the same. If you're worried about it you should sit and have a conversation with him :)
pearl1979
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Well if you are bi from how you were treated in the past it may be psychological. may seek advice from counselor. But if you are bi on your terms because that's how you feel, then great show it. HE SHOULD ACCEPT YOU OF WHO YOU ARE!!
joan9999
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
Do you want to be with him? I would think he would be a little turned on by it. Most guys dream of being with two women and love the idea of girl on girl...If you think that your being bisexual is related to bad experiences you had in your past than you should seek counseling. If you are bi because you just are then that is different.
I do really care about him and I when some girls are gay and the guy finds out then then they might think that some of her homegirls can be 'the girl on the side' - More than a year ago
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