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ladyredbone (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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Does sex ruin relationships?

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Not the sex itself, but the the stuff resulting from sex can ruin it. The social side of it, because of friends and society.
But certainly, a lack of sex can ruin a relationship.
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lovebird01
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 7 months ago
Yes; if you have it too early in the relationship. Communication then becomes difficult.
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the-jiminator
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the-jiminator (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
I guess it would depend on if the person really loves you. If they do then yes, if they don't then no.
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mandingo
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mandingo (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
No it doesn't. What can is the feelings afterward. Like for instance the clingy feeling or the, "why did I do that?" feeling. They are normal you get over them. After you have sex, endorphins are released in your body, they do weird things to you. They make you a lot more instinctual.
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fergusonkw (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
I wouldn't go so far to say that sex ruins a relationship - sex can however change a relationship.

It can make you both uneasy around each other if one or both of you aren't ready for it, however it can also be something that will bring you both closer together, further strengthening the bond between you.

In my opinion sex shouldn't be the only reason that a couple would stay together, or get together in the first place - it's something that you'd want to share with someone else that you have some sort of a bond with. That being said, there's people who can have sex with someone else after hardly meeting them - I'm not saying that's wrong, I just don't understand it.

Don't go in to sex thinking that everything will be different after you've done the deed - that may not be the case, however it can change the relationship, to what extent depends on the strength of your relationship.

- Good luck
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sweetpea
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sweetpea (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
You want to no the truth?
it does. heres how.
ok so I don't no what your beliefs are..but I am a christian. I am not ab to shove anything down your throat at all. I am just going to tell you the facts and how its true bc it JUST happened in my life.
god created sex. he created to be between one man and one woman who are married. why wait? well the reason god created it for married people is bc it DOES bring you closer together. with your bodies you are telling eachother that you care so much for one another and that you will be here for them when you do this outside of marriage with lets say your boyfriend/girlfriend you have now given them a piece of you. you have now let them expirence ALL of you. and you can't ever get that back or give your virginity to someone else. ok..now if ya'll break up..it makes it that much harder. why is it harder? well you have just given all that you are to someone and vice versa, and personally, I felt as if a piece of my heart was broken off. and in a way I felt rejected because I gave him all that I am in a sence, and we still broke up. anyway, my point is, sex is so precious. and even if you are with a guy that you love, the saying now is engraved on my heart, true love waits. as contraversal as that it, you can't change my mind because I tested that theory. anyway, its your choice, but that's my 2 cents of advice. do with it what you'd like. goodluck :)
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wantingitall
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wantingitall (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
It can, you just have to be careful!
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