Am I doing something wrong?

try rubbing your clitoris before fingering, and think of something that turns you on.this will make you more wet inside and make it easier on your fingers once their inside, it will also feel better for you

I'm always willing to "lend a hand" when someone needs advice.ROFL. Sorry, couldn't pass it up. I know I'm not a woman, nor can I tell you about how women masterbate, but I can tell you that I love to finger a woman, and am happy to report.that my efforts have led to a number of orgasms.

A few suggestions.
1. use more than one finger. Push them deep inside and let them explore to find where all your good spots are. Find that g-spot.
2. If the fingers don't cut it, try some toys. There are some great ones out there
3. Don't worry about penetration as much, and gently stimulate your clitorus on the outside instead. Gently but rapid stimulation to the clit can give you some mind blowing orgasms if done correctly.
4. Just keep practicing. It is all about discovering your body and what makes you cum.

First of all, there's a little bit of information that most women don't know but that is VERY important:
Less than 30% of women can have a vaginal orgasm.

Most women spend years of their life faking orgasms, or thinking they had an orgasm when they really didn't. The reason? Stimulation of the vagina, for MOST women, just doesn't cause orgasm. Most women, including myself, can only have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation.

This is a fact that no one cares to advertise, which is why so many girls and women are so confused and misinformed about sex and orgasm. For a year and a half after first losing my virginity, I was constantly frustrated and upset by the fact that I couldn't have an orgasm through sex. And of course, no girl admits to her friends that they can't have an orgasm, so I was under the impression that all of my friends could come and I couldn't.

Of course, I find out now that all of that was lies. When I masturbate, and when I'm intimate with my boyfriend, I (or my boyfriend) stimulate my clitoris. This is what brings me to orgasm. Vaginal stimulation feels nice, but it's not enough to bring my body to that threshold. This is true for almost all women.

So don't worry! There's nothing wrong with you or what you're doing. It's great to explore your vagina, but if you want an orgasm, you'll probably have to stimulate your clitoris. Just remember THIS IS NORMAL. In fact, you're a part of the majority. So just relax, and enjoy your "alone time" with yourself ;-)

What I would do is not insert my fingers at all. Gently rub your clit instead. you will get a much nicer feeling and will be guaranteed to orgasm. Invest in a very strong vibrator to help you along.