Lovemaking vs. just sex?

I make love to my wife. My heart and soul is in it. But before I was married I had a "f*** buddy" who was an ex-girlfriend who would call me late at night when she was horny, and if I was in the mood she'd invite me to hers to spend the night. She'd be horny and have no way to satisfy herself, which is where I came in. It was not love making, just good sex.

Both could be slow or fast, and involve lots of kissing - the difference was in whether my head and heart were involved, or just my cock.

Well I've been to bed with girls and didn't love, and a girl I did. Basically I would say the difference is that it's more of an emotional difference than a physical one. It's just sex when there aren't many feelings involved.

I have actually thought about this and think I have a decent answer for you. Making love is very sensual. Looking into your partners eyes. Being able to see their emotion for you with out any words. I don't think there are any specific moves associated with love making but I think of it as more touching more caressing, being gentle with each other. Also most to a point with a feeling that you and your partner become one. As far as sex. It is more just the physical act without the emotions. At certain times this is very thrilling and fulfilling even with someone you love and make love with.

You can have sex with anyone. When you make love it's with someone you love and its something that comes from the heart, it's a sharing of pure emotion and uncensored feelings.

There is a BIG difference between sex and love making.Sex is just a sexual intercourse with no feelings just think about satisfiying yourself.
Love making on the other hand is deeper.You think about complementing each other as ONE, you care for that person.Its not just penetrating but you're showing your true feelings to that person, you look at them in the eye, touch them in different satisfying ways,you take your time with that person like if the world didn't exist.
Sex only satisfyes your physical needs, but true lovemaking satisfies you physically, emotionally and spiritually.You could tell the difference when you experience these type of things.Trust me, you will!!!