How do I orgasm during sex?

Yes, your clitoris can become desensitized by too much stimulation that a vibrator can provide. The biggest problem though is probably a mental one. Trying for an orgasm is like watching a pot of water waiting for it to boil. It seems like it takes forever. My recommendation is forget about trying to orgasm and enjoy the experience. Relaxing and not going for it will allow your mind to take the pressure off and eventually bring an orgasm along.

while having sex, have your man play with your clitoris at the same time . this makes my girlfriend orgasm

hey Sazzy.you're probably psyching yourself out. don't think- try not to think about having an orgasm, but enjoying the sensations of intimacy. when you feel the orgasm cresting, just let it happen.I'm no woman, but I think that's how its done. When you're to focused on the objective of having an orgasm, you lose sight of the moment, and each time will be like, looking for that orgasm you had 2 weeks ago. what happened then, was then. live the moment, try new things, experiment, etc.and don't be thinking about having your next orgasm.