guy friend I mean.we known each other since middle school, 2 years after we met we started a relationship( I had a boyfriend before him and he knew I loved my ex bf) but then I broke his heart.after that he went really crazy he got a girlfriend.they broke up and she was pregnant but he didn't knew until she was 5 months preg.they went back together.but didn't worked out and they broke up.then 3 months after that we started talking again.you know try to save our "friend" relationship and since then we spent hours talking in the phone,we grew closer again very closer.and well he asked me if I loved him but I din't answered until I Knew if he loved me first.so yeah I ended up telling him I loved him.That I always have.and then we went to high school prom(we graduated the same year) and 2 weeks after prom I lost my virginity.the thing is that when we were together we were both virgins and we had plans for the future.now he has a baby and I really don't mind because I still love him.but he has a lot of problems with his baby's mom. she is obsessed with him and he hardly sees his baby and all I want him 2 be happy.but he is scared about serious relationships.haven't heard of him since 3 months ago.I want 2 talk 2 him but don't know how 2.? I don't know what to say.Help Please.
Move on. This sounds like a guy who doesn't have his head together at all. If his life settles down and he's ready for something better, then I'd say to give it a shot. But you really should give him time to get his shit together first.