Secondary Virginity?

It is a silly word game. Either you are or your not, and either way isn't all that important. The sun is going to rise tomorrow regardless.

Well, obviously it's not going to be bodily real (if that makes sense) but in your heart yea. If you weren't raped and knew what you were doing then there's no going back. You can recommit yourself to the one you're gonna marry but it still doesn't make you a virgin.

Seems silly to me. It's like saying second first time I got married. I guess if thinking about it helps some girls it isn't so bad, but I think the whole concept is failing logic.

if you gave it up the first time willingly then it's gone. it's a one time thing. that's what I think. hope this helps :-)