Virgin Or Not ???

Why are you thinking about sex with a guy that you can't even be honest with? Be proud of your virginity, and don't give it up too easy. Don't have sex with a guy just because he wants you too. All the guys want you to have sex, but that doesn't mean you have to give in. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.

Never feel embarrassed to be a virgin. Don't ever get the wrong thinking that guys like girls with experience more than they do virgins because they don't!. They might if they're just interested in having fun and then moving on after they start getting bored with the same girl. But a guy that has a serious girlfriend would prefer a girl with no or very little experience. Tell the truth. No I'd not be disappointed. Rather I'd be pleased. Think of experience as a girl that's slept with multiple guys. That has no appeal to most guys I'm sure, and certainly not me! By the same token, would you like it better if he told you he's slept with a ton of other girls so he has lots of experience?

I'm only going to answer you first question, "should you have sex?" I have answered this before and I will give you the same answer. If you have to ask a bunch of strangers, your not ready to do it. You have sex when "you" want it, not when he wants it, or a bunch of strangers say "do it."

If you choose to have sex with him, at some point he will get bored of you, and he will leave you for another girl. Boys at your age range are not looking for a girlfriend for life. So just be aware that you will regret it if you do it. As far as the boy telling you he likes experienced girls----that is just a technique used to try to get more sex. Just like you did, even if you were a virgin, you would say, 'but of course, I'm experienced.' So now you think you got no choice but to give it up because the boyfriend is expecting sex. In the other hand, the boy is thinking, 'she is experienced, so why is she not giving it up?'
Now sit back and analyze his statement: I like experienced girls.
What does that tell you about what will happen to you later on?
You will become another one of those so called experienced girls he screwed and left.
do you want to be part of that number?

This guy isn't worth it.save yourself and wait for the right guy. THis guy will probably no be there in the long run. Will this guy stick by your side through thick and thin for the rest of your life? If you believe so then give it away. But remember youw ill never get it back. Once it is gone its gone and that part of your life is gone.

Being a virgin is nothing to be embarrassed about. You should tell your boyfriend that you are a virgin. If you decide to have sex with him he'll figure it out and he may be hurt by the fact that you lied to him about it. And if you have to ask a bunch of strangers if you should have sex then it seems to me that you aren't quite ready. That's just how I see it though.

it's pretty obvious when someone is a virgin and if you think you are ready to lose your virginity, you should be ready to take on the responsibility of telling him the truth and why you chose to lie. as a girl, I prefer a guy to be a virgin. besides the fact that I mark my territory (lol), I can teach him exactly whay I want and need.

well I would tell him and if you are ready to have sex then do it but other than that don't because you will regret it trust me but why didn't you tell him in the first place that you weren't?