I don't want my boyfriend to come in my mouth...?

Just say 'No'.

He should easily be able to accommodate not cum'n in your mouth. Esp. since he knows your sexual exp. b4 him was minimal.

Trust me, it'll never taste good. And WHY would you let him gag you like that? That's totally disrespectful. Why would you even give him anymore after that? That's like a staple way that men humiliate and disrespect women in p*rn, forcing oral on them like that. And yes, it will be bad if he cums while he does that crap to you. Seriously girl, don't let him treat you like a whore. Just tell him during "don't grab my head" when you are giving him oral, and ask him to tell you when his is going to cum, that way you can pull away. You don't have to let him do it in your mouth, I know its probably disgusting and I wouldn't ask a girl to do it.

Just put yourself first, do what you're okay with and do it however its comfortable, DO NOT let him force your head, or come in your mouth, just be yourself and he SHOULD appreciate you. If not, why is he so great anyway? Don't worry about making him happy, if he doesn't care about you being happy.

Just take it in the mouth damn. If a girl didn't wanna take it in the mouth then I wouldn't give her oral simple as that.

"You're not coming in my mouth."

Seriously a sexual experience should be a shared and mutual enjoyment, if something he does scares/upset you then tell him straight up, tell him you don't enjoy what he's doing and that he should be more gentle with you...and that being gagged makes you extremely uncomfortable. If he really likes you then he would understand and no repeat such actions, if he doesn't, then you know just how much he really likes you..

Absolutely tell him.

No sexual activity should make you scared or upset.

Even leaving aside the age difference, he should know better.

It's rude to grab a girls head and force-pump into her mouth, unless she has okayed that particular behaviour.

You're only 18 and inexperienced, so believe me when I tell you, this guy is a asshole, and is treating you terribly. No girl his own age would let him get away with that sort of sh*t.

My advice would be to dump this motherf***er as soon as humanly possible. He's trash.

Yikes. Sounds like a bit of an unbalanced relationship. It'll be over soon enough I would expect.

Tell him straight. Gentle but straight. That he has to give you time and space and to be more gentle! If he loves you, he won't mind. Such things later on may make you hate sex, if only he enjoys it. So tell him how you feel. Don't be afraid of that! Tell him that you said things and did things for him. But he has to let you make things yout way. And to slow down. And if you are afraid, take it step by step. make him come and taste it first. You may even like it. Who knows. Just be straight with him and talk about things.

stop letting him put his hand on your head. first, don't feel pressured. if you want to try tasting some at first don't try to take the whole load. so you can at least see if you like it

OK first of all it's nice that you want to do something nice for your boyfriend, but def don't do anything that is gonna make you uncomfortable because it's pointless if your not going to enjoy it also.

I'd say if your gonna try it, then make sure you tell him to not grab the back of your head like that, I don't really like when guys try to push my head down, either. That will help to make sure that when he starts to come just take him out of your mouth a little so he's not so far in, so that way it'll be away from your throat. Just swallow as he cums and you'll taste it less. It's really not that bad, but it's def harder if you convince yourself that it is. Good luck :o)

The taste of a guys come depends on what he eats. Sometimes its ehh okay and sometimes really gross. But you don't really have to tell him you're not gonna swallow, just simple change it up and tell him how about he cums on your breast or somewhere on your body that he'd like.

Listen,just flat out say it.I had to tell a guy the same thing when I first gave him a BJ.And you know what he said?..."Okay". And that was it.He didn't come in my mouth or hold my head.Secondly,if you are so afraid of telling him this,then you SHOULDN't be with him and vice versa. Being able to talk about such things is part of a being in a relationsip.

He seems a bit controlling and I'm not sure why a girl your age would be dating a guy that is 26. I'm 18 and the guy I'm seeing is 25, but he would never go farther than I wanted...and when your guy keeps your head down like that...my guy would never do. If you guys have a lot in common and the age gap is really no concern, then you should have a pretty good relationship. One that you shouldn't be afraid to tell him what's on your mind. (:

Talk to him about it when you aren't having phonesex or fooling around. Tell him, "I don't enjoy it when I'm giving you a blowjob and you grab my head, hit the back of my throat, or hold my me there when I try to pull away. I'm also not sure if I'm ready to have you come in my mouth just yet. I need you to allow me to be in control when I'm going down on you."

If he's a good guy, the only reason he might be upset is because he didn't realize he was making you feel uncomfortable. If he isn't willing to stop doing those things, then you need to ask yourself if you really want to be with someone who isn't willing to respect you.

DON'T do something your not comfortable with really, just tell him your still uncomfortable with giving him a BJ and if he doesn't understand that then you should think again about your relationship, a guy needs to have respect for your opinion, just tell him you still need time and wanna cut it out a bit till you are comfortable, I'm sure he'll understand!**

If you're uncomfortable you really need to discuss this with him. But if you don't want him to come in your mouth, just say something like you want to see him come and "finish him off" with your hands... But if you notice that he's consistently making you feel uncomfortable and things are moving too fast, consider having a good talk about it - most importantly, look after yourself.

Ok first of all... DONT do anything if you are not ready for it! If he really likes you and wants to be with you than he won't be upset when you tell him that you are not fully ready for this and you don't feel so comfortable with givign bjs.
If he should get upset...well my dear: he's not worth it then!