threesome?

okay I'm the said girl. I HONESTLY have no problem with it as I'm bi and love to do it, just tryin 2 find some1 is the problem.

thers no trust issues at all. all that is good

I personally think it'd be kinda weird to just pick a random person . You don't know where they've been before. You know absolutely nothing about them and that can be a bad thing. Picking a random person is like sleeping with a prostitute in my opinion. I'd personally rather go with someone that both people know, but are not close with. Someone more like an acquaintance than a friend. Someone that both people can trust and know that theyre clean.

You can recuit a friend, you can look at personal ads, place personal ads, find a website geared toward threesomes (and they are out there), pick someone you know well enough but not so well it might be awkward, or go to a club. Just make sure you don't have any relationship issues beforehand, as it can just cause more problems if you're not both secure about it. On my profile I have a story about 'The Rules of Threesomes.' You might want to take a look. If you've never had one before, it's a great story to read, as it details some things you might not think of.

Well, this is something I wouldn't do because it could come with a big price and great risk to your relationship. If you must I think it should be your girlfriend's choice, but of course depending on who this "other" girl is mostly for. If it's for her then her choice, if for you then your choice provided you both totally agree on all the details and limits before you guys hook up. If it's like anything goes for either one, then I'd go with someone you both know really well and feel you can both handle it emotionally free of all jealousies, and keep it as just a good sex outing. However, I hope you think your relationship is strong enough to handle this and the possibility of another one later on because once may not be enough, and hopefully once won't have been too much.

craigslist is a great place to do that actually.

because you can be anonymous about it until you find someone that wants you

A friend that one of you knows. It would be freaky to just grab a random.

I hope you don't get the "did he/she like the other person more than me" syndrome.

Ask one of her girlfriends,go to a bar and pick up one.Place a ad on line,like Craigs list.org or one of the other many sites that cadder to swingingers.