How do you react when a guy's penis size falls below your expectations?

So ladies, how do you react emotionally/mentally/physically when you are about to have sex with a guy for the first time and his penis size falls greatly below your expectations? Are you thouroughly disappointed, saddened, disgusted, laughing, feeling pitty, feeling cheated, feeling like you just want to leave? Your thoughts and answers are appreciated.
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  • Tell you the truth! Last guy I had sex with was smaller that usual and I was kind of disappointed because I was expecting to have great sex and I do like good size penis. But I have to admit that the guy was so good with his mouth and hands that I totally forgot about it. Going down on him was a piece of cake no gagging, no problems and he love it! Then when we got to bossiness we started missionary and it was not doing anything for my and all of the sudden he pushes me to the edge of the bed and that was the trick. So Yes we might get disappointed at the moment but I you know how to play the game we might forget and don't even care! But he must be good!

  • I usually know going into sex what size he is. Usually I feel it against me before the clothes are even off. But truthfully, I try not to have expectations, as I do know everyone is different. But seeing one smaller doesn't usually make me feel anything. I don't worry about it. Penis size isn't all that matters. I had a guy that was quite well endowed and didn't know how to use it. THAT's disappointing. But the guy I've been in a relationship with for years doesn't have anything special down there, but the sex is great because he knows how to use it, and of course his hands and everything else.

  • to be perfectly honest, I think it;s a bigger problem if the guy is too large rather than too small. that said, I totally agree with what the other girls here have said; as long as the guy knows how to use his mouth and his hands, penis size is the furthest thing from our minds. the ONLY time I ever laughed at a guy with a small penis is because he had been bragging earlier that day about how big it was.

  • i don't get disgusted or anything like that. I just accept that that's the way he is and hope for the best. sometimes a guy with a smaller penis can be WAY better then a guy with a bigger one. Its not the size that counts, its how you use it lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm not the Casanova of all time but I have NEVER yet heard a woman complain about the size of a man's penis yet.most girls don't even notice from what I've been told unless it's REALLY small or REALLY large.and it's the least important factor in sex anyway. Emltion and spontaneity and experimentation are so much more important, at least as far as I have EVER heard from women.

    • Umm, you don't hear how women talk when guys aren't around. Size DOES matter. I didn't tell the guy this, but I broke up with a guy because he didn't "measure up". I'm disappointed when it's not what I hoped for.

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  • I would think that as long as it fits in our mouth and that are lips down there can rap around it then its all good!