One nigh stands gone wrong?? LOL

Never had one, never will. I can control myself and would only want to enjoy physical intimacy with someone who I'm in a meaningful relationship with, not someone I met 3 hours ago.

I was incredibly upset one night, as a guy I had been seeing off and on literally left me at a party we had been attending. We'd been having problems, and I was just finished with it. And I had been drinking (please, please remember that!).

So, there was this guy I had been working with, and he was cute and we had been flirting with each other for months but not really doing anything other than that. I called him up, met him out at a restaraunt, and before I knew it we had ended up in a one night stand. I realized halfway through that it was something I didn't need to be doing, and I just stopped, mid-sex, and made an awkward excuse and apologized, and left. I was horrified.

I found out later he had been saying some pretty mean things about me, and not two days later he had another woman parading around with him at another coworker's birthday party. It started a horrible rumor mill and tons of issues within our little group of friends and at work. We eventually talked things out and are still friends, but it was the craziest thing ever and broke me of one night stands.