How long should you wait to have sex with a guy you are dating?

If you can see this guy in your future and him saying he likes you is legit, then I would say its up to you to make that call. If this guy is looking for what you are looking for (short term, long term, dating, etc.) then ya do it. but make sure you want the same thing. it is best to guard yourself when your looking at long term too to make sure he doesn't "break your heart". we all want sex but it should be with a person you care for. just be on the same page with him.

If you have gone on 4 dates with the guy and you're ready to have sex with him, then you are too easy.

let it be it will come when it comes not that it can still be hard to guess because he'll be waiting for you cue. listen to the sex ed classes. they may exagerate but they are correct until you hit a certain point. Don't go way to early like in a few monthes try maybe 8 monthes to a year once again what ever feels right. peace

it depend how you feeel for him and if he's really into you and not a player.

I know that this is a question for girls but if I really click with a girl as she does with me maybe a few dates. If you are that unsure I'd say three weeks. I've waited longer.

I don't think anyone can really give you a time frame. No one can tell you, oh, after 2 months or however many is the right amount of time. I don't think it usually matters how long you wait. Although I do not think you should give it out to him right away. That can cause you to start a relationship off of the wrong foot and you don't know him well enough yet. Who knows, he could be playing you or not too serious about you, but if you're willing to give it to him, he'll tell you what you want to hear. If he sticks around even with out sex for a long time, it shows that he truly cares and respects you.

Anyways, for the most part I think it's just whenever it feels right for you. There is no certain time period. For some people it can be first, second third date, and others may wait a few months or even until theyre married. it all depends on the people and how ready they feel about it.

Think about it. Are you comfortable with this guy? Are you going to be upset if you sleep with him and he ends up leaving sometime soon? Do you have a gut feeling he might leave you after he gets "bored" with you? How genuine is this guy? How trustworthy/loyal is this guy? Is he clean? How big of a deal is sex to you? Is it something more important/precious to you or do you feel that its overrated? It's all up to how you feel.

I waited 6 weeks before sleeping with my boyfriend. It was a little tough, but I knew I wanted a real relationship - not based on sex! But I must admit the sexual tension that built between us made the experience sooooo much better when we did have sex - it was amazing! If you are really looking for a relationship, not just a fling, I would suggest waiting at least 3 weeks. That gives you enough time to get to know him a little better and figure out if the two of you are capatible and think you might want to persue something with him. Good luck :)