Girls: how painful was it the first time you had sex??

For my first time, it was really painful. Actually it still can be really painful for me. I've only been with one guy before and he's really big down there! I am also very tight though, even after many times of having sex with this guy and most girls are not like that. I didn't bleed the first time we had sex, but I have bled a few times after that. It's really embarrassing, but if they guy cares enough about you, he won't make it too awkward and he won't let it get in the way of a relationship or caring about you so don't worry too much about that. I'd suggest before doing it for your first time, spend a lot of time on foreplay, or even buy/use a small dildo to help loosen you up a little. It'll help. Then again, not all girls have had trouble with pain and/or bleeding. It just depends on you and the guy's size.

It was a little painful for me but it really wasn't bad. It caught my breath for like a second my man asked it I was ok and waited until I said ok. It only hurt for a few seconds at the most for me but it really depends on a lot. If your tense its going to hurt if he's rough its going go hurt if your not wet its going to hurt. I didn't bleed at all either.

It was really painfull because he was so big so he went slower and it didn't hurt so much. I didn't bleed until a year later

my first time wasn't all that painful. Ya it hurt at first, but it got better really quickly. as far as bleeding goes, I spotted at little but only for a few minutes. then it stopped. Just make sure that the guy goes slow. My guy was pretty big, but he knew that going slow would make it less painful.

I was pretty youny unfortunatly, but the sex itself did not hurt bad just a bit uncomfortable for the first little bit. I did not bleed.

it really wasnt all that bad.granted he was kind of not that big lol but yeah it wasnt bad to me and I didn't bleed after the whole sex thing because he "popped my cherry" before we even started having sex because he fingered me pretty rough like once lol but yeah I hope I helped

for me it wasn't really painful - I could feel some pressure down there because I was tight, but it didn't really hurt and I didn't bleed. But I was also 23 years old and had previously had several gyno exams - so I think that makes it a little different from someone who is like 16 and never really had anything done down there. the first couple of times I had sex it felt the same, but it didn't take long for it great!