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Can anxiety cause problems cuming?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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My boyfriend and I just recently started having oral sex and he takes a really long time to come so long he usually ends up having to take care of it himself, I was wondering if it is something I am doing or if it could be something in his head like performance anxiety.

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adat1408
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adat1408 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
anxiety / nervousness / scaredness.alll can STOP cumming completely
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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
Almost certainly in his head. It passes if no one makes a big deal of it.
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attractiveontarioguy
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attractiveontarioguy (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
ABSOLUTELY! I last forever becuase I am afraid of : getting her pregnant, stds, etc.oral not so much, I last a long time during sex. when I do have a lot of stuff on my mind however YES it impacts it

you may not believe that our brain is attached to our cocks, but they are ! :-)
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Dy-lon
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Dy-lon (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Im the same way. I have a hard time going when receiving oral. its normal but passion helps.
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iamranga
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iamranga (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
If he had performance anxiety he would have trouble maintaining an erection, so I don't think that is it. He is probably naturally like that so I wouldn't worry too much if I were you.
It is probably a good thing. You can take as long as you want.
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nessavanice
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nessavanice (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Anxiety can slow the process down. Its good your trying to relax him. Howoften do you do this for him? Did he always come before?
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barbie-Blonde
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barbie-Blonde (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
its you hun.he takes care because he can get himself there.your new to it so keep practising.ask him what he wants and likes.
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Celiene (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
its generally a good thing if he doesn't come to early and it takes some time, I hav a friend who's boyfriend only lasts 30mins (including foreplay). where as my partner has lasted 5 1/2 hours. Each guys is different.

if you want to make him come quickly, just because you can. try sucking his **** and giving him a handjob at the same time, and change it up a bit by putting ur mouth just near the head of his dick so when ur givin him a handjob its just touching your mouth and tongue. its a good tease 4 them and gets the senses goin. also if you stop suckin and just lightly stroke your hand /and or fingers up and down his dick and lightly stroking his balls, it hightens the sensitivety down there and will make him harder. keep doin that 4 a while and just all of a sudden swollow as much of his dick as you can.

also if you do wana make him come quickly try blindfolding him and doin all the above, as he'll not know wats comin next .he'll b begging 4 it
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Elle0214 5 1/2 hours? That's a long time to be having sex! (including foreplay). lol - 2 months ago
 
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