2 school years ago I was at my boyfriends house after school one day and his mom was supposed to be working late. He wanted to have sex so we did and right when it was feeling really good his mother shouted his name and told me to get my clothes on and go downstairs. She drove me down the street to my house and then called me a few hours later she called me and told me she was disappointed me because I always said I was going to wait till marriage. She has known me all my life and would have sleepover for all the neighborhood kids. Every time I go to his house now she keeps looking at me and walks in the room every 10 minutes. We used to talk all the time but now we only talk sometimes and its usually on "hey how's school" and stuff like that.
I'm sorry that his mom is so mean to you. Your sex life is none of her business, and butting in is inexcusably rude of her. If she was a real woman, she would apologize.
That said, one of you definitely needs an apartment.
Yes she still likes you. She didn't tell your mom,she only spoke to you. She still lets you come over to her house. Sometimes we think that we are going to wait until we are married to have sex but as we get a little bit older we (obviously) change our mind for one reason or another. Is she disappointed in her son? It takes two to do the deed. Hopefully over time the conversation with her will pick up again. It is funny how she comes in the room every 10 min. Does she actually think that you would do it when she's home? Anyway it's something you can always find another place to do it. She's just being paranoid on "her watch"
Yes she still likes you. You still go over to their house and she's talking to you. What has changed is her personal view of you. She holds the view that you and her son are too young to be having sex and she is keeping checks on both of you.
She's being straight up with you. She told you she's disappointed in you (and probably her son as well) and it will take her a little time to get used to the idea that you guys have been sexually active.
It sounds like she's still upset. She probably trusted you a lot and felt betrayed, that and I guess she didn't want you two having sex in her house. As for what she does say to you, it sounds like she's just being polite.
If I where you id set down with her sometime tell her how you feel about her son, ask her if she waited till she got married.? Tell her your sorry you let her down but your a adult and that she should be happy that you where one that waited till 18. Tell her you hope she'll trust you again
I've had this issue! His mom already knew we were doing it, but to walk in and find us in bed together was a little harrowing. She was frigid the rest of the time we dated. Most likely she's a little disappointed, but not mad. I would say she's checking on you two, trying to make sure ou don't do it again. Maybe next time you are there you should make it a point to carry on a long conversation with her, or ask her opinion on something. Extend an olive branch. She could be just as worried about the tension and awkwardness as you.
If you try to talk to her in depth a few times and it doesn't work, well, she's probably not going to get over it and there's no point in worrying. Just be civil and courteous and try to keep it nice enough that no one else notices the awkwardness.
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