Stimulating the G-spot to the level where it will ejaculate requires three major items: time, tender play and (usually, but certainly not always). What you do is this: you start with stimulating the G-spot (which to some women is even more exciting than stimulating the clitoris) with your fingers and slowly and tenderly work your way to the point where you can slip into the vagina . A good tip when you're using lubricant in and around the vagina is to warm it slightly before applying it. It's cold as it comes straight out of the dispenser, which to most women is very uncomfortable on the warm, tender and highly stimulated vagina. Simply have the dispenser ready, but floating in a bowl of warm water so it will warm up while you're playing.
Once you're in, stimulate and stimulate and stimulate (literally pump up the volume) until you feel the vaginal muscles contracting (the first sign of an orgasm coming up). That is the signal to change position. Leave four fingers in the vagina and lay your thumb over the clitoris. Now simply squeeze the G-spot from behind and - like you were pressing an orange or a lemon - you'll squeeze out the liquid.
Whatever you do now: DON'T STOP! The orgasm will not only be very, very, very intense, it will also revolve. Let it come and come and come again until your partner asks you to stop. This revolving orgasm may very well last for ten to fifteen minutes. Squeeze out the liquid, ease up a little and when the next wave comes up, squeeze again. There is more to come.
there is like a little dealio in the clit rub and lick it as much as possible and kind of fast and rough that's what gets me lol sorry I don't know how to explain what the "dealio" is but yeah its kind of like a little hole in/on the clit and yeah it does wonders wen it is touched and played with
I wouldn't recommend you "get" your girlfriend to squirt. That could put too much pressure on her and makes it sound like it is a party trick.
First, she will probably need to be very comfortable with the situation.
Next, she needs to be very turned on. You can stay away from her yoni (vagina) until she is literally begging for you to touch her. This isn't completely necessary, but the more turned on she is the less inhibited she will be. Most women describe a sensation like having to pee and that is because the urethral gland is swelling and pushing up against her bladder. Make sure she pees just before you begin so that there is no concern about it.
Also, place a towel underneath her so that you catch all the fluids that she releases. If she is concerned it is pee then tell her it is taken care of.
Finally, once you have entered her with your fingers you will need to stimulate her g-spot, which is the area on the upper wall just below her pubic mound (ridges feel similar to the ridges of a walnut and show up when she is aroused). I've found that the "come hither" motion against her g-spot has worked in every case for me.
For someone who hasn't ejaculated before it may not be easy to accomplish. Don't pressure anything. Getting there is pretty fun too. There are also teachers who can work with you. In the Colorado area you can go to www.sacredsexcolorado.com to find practitioners who can teach it. Otherwise, do a search for tantra or sacred sexuality to find someone who might be able to help.
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