Ok, so. I'm a virgin, but I'm going to be having sex for the first time within the next couple months. I know the basics of what goes on, but details are a little fuzzy as to what I'm supposed to do. like I think I have a better idea of what you're supposed to do when the girl is on top. but what exactly am I supposed to do when I'm on the bottom? I don't just want to lie there. unless that's kind of what you're supposed to do.
My guy knows I'm inexperienced and I know he'll help me through it but I'm just looking for some tips. I want my first time, and his and my first time together to be a special and pleasurable experience. and I'd really love to blow his mind if at all possible! haha. So any little tips or pointers you can give me, guys or girls. I'd very much appreciate it! Thanks!
1. its going to hurt you 2. you'll bleed 3. make sure he wears a condom 4. have sex on something you don't mind getting blood on (this might or might not happen) 5. be there for each other after you have sex.as the first time is mentally challenging.
if you're on bottom, you do nothing but take it.
make sure he makes you really really wet beforehand or else you'll be in more pain than you have to be.
Let me just say this. Use your hands, use your mouth, use your legs, use your eyes. If you want to be great at sex, then don't be scared to get into it. If you just lay there, or even if you are on top, and just sit there, then it will not be a great experience for him. Ravage the guy. If he has you pinned to the bed, then use whatever you can to let him know you are glad he has you pinned. Grab his back with your fingers and dig your nails in a little. Wrap your legs around him. Stare into his eyes telling him to drive it deeper. Suck on his neck and ears. I mean use whatever you have to drive him wild.
And use that voice. We love the moans of a woman. We love to hear her talk dirty to us, or even just whisper our name in our ear with that heavy breathing noise.
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