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Is there hope, or is he using me?

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ShannieCheyenne (Age:Under 18)     When: More than a year ago
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Alright here's a tough one... There's this boy we dated a while back..and I've liked him even though we've just become friends.. He's ALWAYS dating someone and he always calls me and one thing leads to another and he always asks if I wanna have sex.. Then he tells me that's the way I'll get him back.. even though he has a girlfriend.. I don't have a clue , cause I miss him really bad, and I don't want to have sex with him, but that's the only way he'll date me again =(

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f15x28 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
It's evident he doesn't want to be with you, he's only after the sex and he will tell you all kinds of lies to get it. It's hard to let go of past feelings, but you have to try to move on.
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cardioman65
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cardioman65 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 10 months ago
It sounds like he is using you. That is not to say he may not like you, because he has a girlfriend. He is comfortable and may like her more, but I would cut off the sex. Tell him the truth about your feelings for him and you can no longer have sex with him. He should not be able to sweet talk you because you are in control not him! you call the shots. If he does not come back to you, it wasn't a relationship in the first place. Plenty of fish in the sea.
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Giddyup
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Giddyup (Age:30 to 35)      When: 11 months ago
This guy is big trouble...no real guy will only get back with you if you have sex with him. This guy simply wants sex, by wasting your time with him you are missing the chance of meeting a better or the right guy that wants to be with you for the right reasons. Stay away from him!
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purplemonster
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purplemonster (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Looking from the outside in I would recommend moving on...i can't see this one working out.
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hy7y8 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Yeah the guys are 100 percent right...there are millions of great guys out there don't get stuck with a guy who wants that from you and besides you said he has a girlfriend duh...
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