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I had sex with my step brother, what should we do?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 2 months ago
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i had sex with my step brother. we just met each other about a month ago, we new we shouldnt but we couldn't resist. we keep having sex with each other, and almost got caught by my mom and his dad. what do we do. we have talked about telling him but we decided that that would be a bad idea. we love each other and we know we shouldnt be in this relationship but we can't stop areselves, what do we do.

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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
okay, now we all know that the kids on the brady bunch had to sneak in and what each other showering.ROFL. Try telling me Greg and Marsh didn't hook up once or twice.

No, really. The fact that he is not blood relation just means that you found a guy you like. The problems come with your age, and the fact that you are still technically related. I have heard of these type relationships working, but at your age, chances are it is going to be more of an early conquest than a lasting thing. And because of that, it will cause some serious awkwardness at future family reunions. Normally when someone your age becomes sexually active, I would encourage them to talk to their parents. This might not be the best approach to just come out and tell mom and dad you are having sex. But you might discuss with your mother or father on an individual basis that you are truly attracted to your step brother. Don't give more details then you need to at first. Feel out their reaction, and then you will know if you should reveal the rest of the information.

Is it wrong. Technically no. But in the eyes of some, marriage makes him your brother and you should be ashamed. I'm not going to be that critical. I would stop having sex if I were you and explain to our step brother that you both need to consider the effects of such a relationship.
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razaaleem (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
wow.i want to sex with my girl friend too,but she said that keep patience so tell me some idea to convince her?
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Little-Hippie
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Little-Hippie (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Step 1: Stop f***ing
Step 2: Spend less time together. Make different friends.
Step 3: Don't tell ANYONE! I know honesty is good, but there's NO reparation with this one.
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iamranga (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Wtf. Is this considered incest? I mean you guys aren't blood-related but still.
If you want to stop this business I think you should find yourself a boyfriend, help him find a girlfriend and go for a run whenever you feel horny. I don't think you can ever see him as a brother, in fact as you grow older things will probably become more awkward. WTF!
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Question Asker I didn't need no f***ing rude people to come and answer my question. I came on here so I could get advice because I'm confused and inluv but don't know what to do, I'm sorry I've commited such a mother f***ing bad ass crime - A month ago

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adat1408 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
don't tell anyone at all.
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bubblegumcandy2 (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
I would stop having sex with your brother, not only are you brother and sister but the sex could eventually lead to a baby and then how would you explain to your parents your f***ing your brother? step brother, half brother, full blood brother, he is still your brother!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Well since you are fairly young I see this being an issue like stated earlier things normally don't play out well at that age and you're always going to have to deal with him. There is no getting away from this x. I would say be very very careful with sex. Other wise my aunt and uncle are step brother and sister and they have had a pretty great mariage. They have 3 kids together and are expecting their first grand child so it is possible to survive the situation. As I said just be very careful and think about what your doing. You are young and mistakes happen, not every relationship is going to work and your stuck with him for the rest of your life. Just use your head.
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melissarose8585 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I'm going to try not to judge, as what you do is your business. What I will do, though, is tell you the many ways this relationship can backfire. What if it doesn't last? Awkwardness, definitely. No escaping the ex then, especially if he lives in the same house. You'll hurt your parents in a major way when they find out, and they will. Society will not be very accepting of your relationship, and you don't understand sexual discrimination until you've faced it.

I would suggest stopping, now. There is no such thing as "we couldn't resist." Every temptation can be resisted. It's just that you have to make yourself resist. If you decide you must be together, just remember the consequences. You'll hurt a lot of people, and you are so young it is unlikely the relationship will last forever. Do you want to take the chance of creating unresolvable family problems for the future or cut it off now and lose sex?
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itsmander2u (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
this is a bad situation, the best thing to do would be to tell your parents.or stop your relationship because.this is bad
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katiesmuff (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
It's a bit tricky but you two are not blood relatives. There are many cases of couples just like yourselves and they have very sucessful relationships. You guys need to sit ma and pa down together and let them in on the situation. They might not be very happy about it, but really not much they can do about it.
I also see that you are under 18; I sure don't condone sex at your age young lady and just how old is the step brother. Those are things that might make a big difference with ma and pa
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Question Asker Im 16 and he is 17. - A month ago
Answerer Like I said before you are both too young! - A month ago
Question Asker No we ar not too young. legally I'm aloud to have sex with whatever age boy I want! why would we be to young? - A month ago
Answerer I can tell you that in the State of Illinois you nor him is legal as yet. He would go to jail for having sex with you! Beyond the legal ramifacatons your just kids and kids don't need to be f**king. Dating yes, christ your not even out of high school yet - A month ago
Question Asker Alright, alright. you win. maybe we are too young to be having sex, and since you think 16 is too young I guess you don't want to know what age I lost my virginity. - A month ago
Answerer I'm not trying to be mean with you. The things I'm trying to tell you not to do, I did do and paying for it today! I'm 25 with a 4yr old daughter. At 14 I thought I was smartest thing on earth, had sex, fooled around with pot etc etc. Today I am a single mother who realized I missed my entire teenage fun years. Instead of having fun with everyone else I was sneaking around getting screwed by a bunch of older guys who just wanted pussy and nothing else. Don't follow in my footsteps!! - A month ago
Question Asker Imsorry that al happened to you. all that you just described of ur life when you were a tnager is pretty much waht is happening to me.

- A month ago
Answerer I am glad to hear you say that! If you are smart enough to know that you are smart enough to get the hell out of it and have a good fun and rewarding life. You don' t have to F**K to get along these days. Who knows in a few years you and the step brother might still have great feelings for one another and who knows???? I sure wish you the best and hope that you use the judgement I know you have!!!!! We only go around ONE time no second chance with life! - A month ago
Question Asker I will get out of it I'm tired of the life I'm having right now I want a better life without sex, drugs etc. - A month ago
Answerer Oh you are SO Right; There is so much more out there than the damn drugs and the filthy sex. There is good sex, but no neeed to hurry, get a bit older first and then you will enjoy.
I hope all goes well for you!!!!! - A month ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
You're under 18, you shouldn't even be having sex. My opinion is that you stop-now. Even though he's not your blood relative, it's still wrong. I mean, how would you explain it to your parents if you ended up pregnant by your step brother? I'm not trying to be mean, just trying to help you put things into perspective. You say you can't stop yourselves, but just try spending less time with him and not being alone in a room with him. Put some distance between yourselves if possible and you may find that you actually can stop.
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