How do guys feel about them i've had a few and regretted 2 of them but I really liked one of the guys. I know realistically we had only known each other for about five hours but we got on so well, it was like we really clicked which is rare for me I must admit. Do guys think badly of the girls they've slept with? i don't think badly of the guys but I was thinking boys might just think of the girls as sluts and not worth their time again.
I guess I'm asking because I really want to talk to the guy I liked and maybe hook up again but I'm worried he won't think I'm worth the time because he's already had me. He seemed to like me at the time but then I guess they all do, right?
think of it this way; now that he has already had you, whether he likes you or not, he is going to wonder how many other people you've let into your pants so easily.
i'm not saying it's impossible to make something out of it, just talk to him. get deep with him, let him know that things got caught up in the moment but if he doesn't want to pursue anything else, just let him go and learn from your mistakes.
if you need any other advice, just ask me. I knew a girl that had this same issue and she got through it fine.
Thank you. I should be seeing him tonight so I'll try and talk to him then. I know the 'rules' 'if you want a guy you need to make him wait' etc but I don't like the idea that their has to be rules and I don't see why if I felt this way he might not but maybe I'm just clinging to hope lol. - 2 months ago
Uhm. if you think that if he has already had you then he won't want you again, then maybe you shouldn't have slept with him with in the first five hours of knowing him.