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How do I slow things down without driving him away?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 2 months ago
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I was in a long-distance relationship for 7months, I just recently broke it off because we literally never saw each other and it was to much of a strain.There's this guy at my school that I've always been attracted to, and he told me he felt the same way. By the time I time I dumped my ex, I knew I was going to get with this guy.

Usually I like to take things slow in a relationship, just to make sure that there's something more to the relationship then sex, even though I am a very physical person. But I don't know if it was because I was so frustrated from the long distance relationship or what, but I started dating this other guy the same week I dumped my ex, and within 3 weeks he had fingered me and I had given him a blowjob.

Now I'm worried that all he wants from me is sex. we had a long talk the other night, and he told me how much he cares about me, and how although he does physically want me, its only a small part of why he's dating me, and he sounded so convincing, I totally believed him. plus, he's just not the kinda guy to lie to a girl to get in her pants. we both agreed that we should slow down the relationship, and that we wanted to wait for sex

but the next day we were talking and he was saying how horny he was, and he tried to get me to come over and have sex with him, and he wouldn't shut up about me giving him another blowjob and stuff. is it just because he was horny? I really don't think he's like that, and I want to believe that I mean something to him, but its like he has two different sides to him. what should I do? I want to slow things down, but I don't want him to get pissed and dump me over it

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It sounds to me like he was just telling you what you wanted to hear before. Really look at who he is, don't just see him for what you want him to be.
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