Well yesterday in the night I went to a party with my boyfriend and he got extremely drunk so I took him home.His parents weren't there so I took him in and on the way to his room he started touching me all over my body and keep telling me I love you and tried kissing me .I ignored it since he was drunk
Well when I got to his room he suddenly picked me up and threw me in his bed .And started to unbutton my shirt .I couldn't do much because I got hit me in the back of my head when he dropped me in the bed and he was to strong to push back.
Luckily his oldest brother was in the house and heard my screams. He got my boyfriend off me and hit him so hard he knocked out.His brother got me and gave me one of his shirts because mine was all ripped .He took me home , tried to comfort me and then I made him promise he wouldn't say anything.
If my boyfriend bother wasn't there to save me could this have been called rape even though his my bf? Should I tell anyone what happened? Do you think my boyfriend knew what he was doing?
Obviously he has a drinking problem. If he drinks to the point that he can't control himself and behaves as you described, that's a definite problem. Forget the whole matter and him. Unless you can identify some benefit to somebody by rehashing the events of that night.
This is without a doubt attempted RAPE. plain and simple, I am so glad that his brother was there to save you, your Boyfriend maybe didn't know what he was doing, but he certainly know what he wanted. The most important thing is that if he does not face up to what he was about to do, he will do it again, either to you or someone else. that being said, he might have just been very drunk and needs to understand that is how he becomes with woman when drunk and needs to change. Important thing for you: Talk to someone, its trumatic. If he isn't prepared to take this seriously, then dump him, as he will do it to you again. If he gets that drunk again, get someone else to take him home, or do not be alone with him.
Um yeah it would have been and it seems like your boyfriend is a retard when drunk and most likely so when he's not I'd either dump him or tell him no more drinking whiles he's seeing you trust me we don't change the way we act when were drunk meaning if we act one way when were drunk we will the next time too
I'm sorry but how could you let something like rape slide. But I agree you should talk to your boyfriend about it. I'm not saying forget him just always remember what he can do. - A month ago
yes. yes. and yes. no matter how drunk a person is, you still remember know what you are doing. at least to a certain extent. I knew this one time when I was totally hammered and almost did it with my coworker. I stopped because I realized just how wrong that is (we work together everyday so it'll get really weird). and whenever I'm drunk I still remember bits and pieces of the night no matter how trashed I was.
the same thing happens to me I don't know what to do either.we have benn in a relasoship for almost 5yrs he was drunk 2 but he went all the way I did not have anyone to help me.
That is rape. It doesn't matter if he's your boyfriend or not, what he did was wrong and he tried to violate you. The guy is a shit and obviously doesn't care about the way you feel. Of course his brother didn't want you to tell, he doesn't want his brother to go to jail. If he had sound mind to attempt rape on you then the bastard knew what he was doing.
He would have definitely have known what he was doing, even if he was drunk he still would have been able to realise you didn't want to do anything especially if you were screaming. talk to your friends brother about it, if you don't want to speak to him directly, just make sure he knows what he did and how he acted towards you. You really shouldn't ignore it!
That's definitely an attempted rape. Drunk or not, you should get away. There isn't enough booze in the world to get a decent guy to do this. He's no good. He's tried to rape you once, and you have no reason to think he won't do it again.
That is definitely attempted rape Hun, you need to tell your boyfriend. That is unacceptable. Even when he is drunk he cannot do that to you that is not an excuse, even if he didn't know what he was doing if he is an avid drinker and gets drunk a lot then he might try this again, I am sure you don't want that.
it would deff. be considered rape. But considering he is your boyfriend and was drunk.as long as you know that he is NOT that sort of person.i would talk to him about it. He needs to know how he gets when he is drunk.
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When: 2 months ago
