Why do girls want sex?

Because we enjoy it ?

i love this question. Sex is more than just the amount of orgasms that you can get if you can't even get one. it's the relationship that you build with your partner. even casual, one-night stands are relationships...just brief ones like some people's marriages. for girls...most girls, it's all about that connection you have with your partner...it's trust...security...comfort...closeness and every conceivable mushy word you can think of. the other part of it is that just as guys need to have sex so does a girl. we're sexual beings and once that "cherry has been popped" the need is always there clawing you like an itch you can't scratch. I know I feel like something is missing when I go too long without

Sex is about more than just an orgasm. The organism is the end, which seems to be the main attraction for guys, but for girls, the journey is just as important, if not more. Sure, I would love to have an orgasm every time. But the lead up to the orgasm is what is really enjoyable. The best sex I've had has not been when he was trying to get us to the orgasm, but when we went slow and just enjoy it, lived in the moment.
It feels amazing to have sex. It's not just the orgasm that makes it feel good. Girls crave sex too because we want the physical pleasure. Yes, sex is a physical craving for girls as well as for guys. Because it feels good for us too. We want the pleasure like you do- for us it's just more about the journey than the destination.

cuz its awesome

think of it this way, you orgasm when you masterbate, the orgasm just feels better when your with a woman. for a woman, it feels better the whole time, but she can orgasm later when she masturbates lol.

women come when they do very specific things, so that's why its hard for lovers to do that for them..

I'm a virgin, I've never had sex, I have a couple toys and honestly I might not be as horny as a guy (ive heard they think about sex every ten seconds) but when I'm really craving sex I have to masturbate once, sometimes even twice a day. I'm not a virgin by choice simplly by circumstance I mean I don't have any need to have random toughtless sex with a random person. so to say I crave it like a man, I don't think that would ever be possible. but we do crave it. Also I could never get turned on enough to simply do it with someone I wasn't attracted to, I've heard some guys say it doesn't matter as long as its got a vagina. I crave sex and I've never even experianced the real thing yet. and even if I didn't reach my orgasum it does feel good its like water on the driest of day even a little can help and a down pour can't really quench your thirst but it still feels good. I've heard friends say that often if the guy cums before she does the guy will often finnish her off with oral.

I love sex. I love the initmacy, the feeling, the ways the body's intertwine. I feel like a guy for saying this but I can't live without sex. I have tried. I was abstinent for 2 years, and it was terrible... I didn't need emotion during sex, because sex to me was just a physical fullfillment. Crazy I know, but sex with my exFWB was completely different from "making love" with my crush. There are just different levels of love, lust, intimacy, feeling, and the bond.

I had never experienced "making love" until recently, and my whole perspective of sex changed. Maybe because there are real emotions involved now, but sex has become more than a physical hunger. I do it to make him feel good and not for my own orgasm anymore. It's just the satisfaction that he enjoyed himself is enough. Maybe this guy is just really special to me, but the two times we have had sex I didn't come either time but I keep going back to him. =]

I think for some reason, girls just aren't as open about wanting sex. But I agree with the answers here in that it's just something we desire for whatever reason. It's definitely about the physical touch and feeling really close to whomever you're with. And, we also happen to be caring, loving, and relatively selfless. We don't always mind if you get greater pleasure than we do.

I like sex because I need it. I want it. It feels great. I can orgasm with a guy I don't love, but for me to fully enjoy it I need to have an emotional connection with him.

Sex with someone I love is the best thing ever in the world. Ever ever. There are a thousand conversations that take place and not one word ever has to be spoken. There most often is, but it's not completely necessary. I crave the heat, the noise, the touch, everything about it, more than I crave sleep. Being able to say my preferences to him takes a lot of trust. Then when he acts on them with stunning accuracy while not really knowing if he's doing it right (barring my immediate response), it tells me that he truly cares about pleasing me. It is like winning an auditory lottery if he can't help but make noise or say things when I'm lovin' on him.

I don't always need to orgasm, but I will admit that I sometimes feel it's not fair if I don't. Sex is the one activity in which I think everything should be fair. I don't need to orgasm every single time because...well, I like marathons and sometimes it's not physically possible. Sometimes I just want his touch, and not so much the intense physical sensations.

The only bad sex I've ever had was when I garnered "extraordinary" and "phenomenal" for my efforts, and the jerk blamed me for the fact that he never could make me orgasm.

I mean craving physically. Girls get horny, and our bodies "need" sex, if you will. I know for me, there are times where I just really want to have sex in the same way that sometimes I'm tired and need sleep, and sometimes I'm hungry and need food.

1) Our bodies crave sex just like yours do. We want it, it feels good, and it is actually physically really good for us.

2) It makes us feel close to somebody we love. If I really love somebody, it's a sign of intimacy, trust, and commitment.

3) We like making guys happy. If a boy we love wants sex, it simply feels good to know that you are doing something nice for someone you care about.

Depends on the girl, me, I want sex only with someone I wnt that kind of deep connection with. it's the ultimate setting down eachother's guards and it get's mroe appealing as time goes on, not having shared it with anyone yet. For me love needs to be apparent, if I feel like he doesn't really love me, then sex is very unappealing.

For girls, sex is not just something physical. It is something emotional as well. Girls can be just emotionally satisfied during sex and thus not have an orgasm. Girls just like the closeness with their men and of course they like to feel so loved. But some girls just love the physical side of sex..

i enjoy the emotional closeness and the physical feeling. I don't always orgasm but I can honestly say I don't always feel a need to orgasm! whether or not I come I find sex with my partner still amazing. emotional aspect is imponrtant for me though. I tried casual sex once, we didn't love each other, and I can honestly say I couldn't orgasm and felt pretty rubbish after because having had sex like that I realized it wasn't the sex I missed, it was that closeness to another person and I just felt very empty and down for the next few days.
happily, now I'm in such a great relationship and having the feeling of love running parallel with the lust magnifies the experience and the feelings a million times and that is what my body craves. its why I don't get aroused by seeing a random fit guy walking around naked, but if I think about my other half I get all sorts of urges!

I like the pressure. I like the fact that it's with someone I love. I like that it makes him happy also.

I've had sex several times but have never reached orgasm in sex which is a little sad...

The reason I like it, is because it feels good..mostly, and I'm secretly searching for the guy that can make me come!

I just love the whole experience, foreplay and talking...and hopefully one day orgasm :P

it feels good to us also.. and our body craves it just like yours

Girls its your answer time !

From what I understand, girls have a very different set of feelings and expectations from sex. First of all, they have way more nerve endings in their vaginas than we do in our penises. This is why girls will frequently act like they're being over the top...because it is actually more intense than we experience it. Women can have two different kinds of orgasms too so if it isn't working one way, it's good to try it the other way (I actually just found out how to have the other kind of guy orgasm but I won't get into that now). I've been with several women who weren't interested in having an orgasm at certain times. They just wanted to feel sexy and desirable and close to me. They also wanted to just focus on my pleasure because it made them happy to make me happy. They get a huge emotional kick out of sex generally and that is what non-orgasmic satisfaction tends to refer to.

Also from what I understand, a lot of what you said in the second part is true, it's a huge disappointment with certain guys. No one likes having a selfish partner, sexually or otherwise.