Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and are going to have sex for the first time this weekend. I was just curious if there is anything I can do to make it special.
1. Make sure your ready, if your hesitant then you'll be tense and not fully into it. 2. Foreplay is key, go down on him first and then make sure he at least fingers you if you can't get him to go down on you. Ask him to go down on you. He won't want to mess things up if he's ganna get sex out of it. Unless he's a dumb ass. 3. It might hurt you, so make sure your wet first, and that he takes it easy. 4. Condoms prevent babies, unless you have birth control or the morning after pill. Plus he won't come as fast. Even if he pulls out, he still might pre-cum.
Lastly communicate, since it's your first time neither of you will know how you like it, so find the right position. Have fun, don't be nervous, and it lasts longer the second time you guys will go at it that night.
make sure its what you both really want. don't presure each other cause it can cause problems in the relationship in the future
i agree with emilygurl make sure your wet before he puts it in.
also don't go straight for the sex. start with some fondling and cuddling. just to get each other in the mood. try kissing him on the back of the neck while you doing it. <-- huge turn on for me! : )
feel sexy. tease him. be confident and don't be embarrass. but I prefer you won't indulge with such act first. your young, resist it. its nonsense having sex right now. you might regret it.
Definitely use a condom! And you can get flavored ones ;) Plus, it will make him last longer.
You can set the ambiance by using candles. but make sure they are not anywhere that can get knocked over or light anything on fire. Good music in the background so it isn't completely quiet. since it's both your first time.
Foreplay! That always makes sex great, everytime. Especially since it is your first time, you want to be as wet as possible to make it easier on both of you. You can always get lube, and that comes flavored as well ;)
P.S. Make sure that this is something you really want to do! You never get your "first time" back.
Well make sure you wear really sexy underwear! It always works, also if your on bottom, rub your fingers on his back that will make him really horny and he'll moan. Make sure your not too nervous cause then it's no fun! It will be amazing trust me, but get ready for pain and make sure he fingers you first cause then the pain isn't as bad.!
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