There are people losing there virginity at 14! What the point? At my school things get spread around fast.How do you go to school knowing that everybody knows you've had sex
Isn't that a problem for the people who are so immature that they feel they can stand in judgment of other people's sexuality? I lost my viginity at 15 and I would have done it sooner if I had the chance. I did learn early that people who have a problem with it will have a problem with it regardless of when you have sex. It is the fact that you are having sex (and often that they are not) that is the real sticking point. I do admit that sex in college was a lot better but that was a long way off at 15. Live and learn.
I don't have a problem with sex..i just think people should at least wait to have it for the first time with someone who cares about you...did you even stay hard long... I mean you here only 15 - A month ago
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Staying hard at 15 wasn't a problem, it was getting it stop that proved troublesome.
It is better to enjoy sex with people who care about you, they tend to be more considerate lovers. The problem is, of course, finding them. That generally requires going through a few people until you find such a person. Wanting sex doesn't mean you are indiscriminate, just that you are interested. - A month ago
People are loosing their virginity so young because they think that if they don't do it people will look down on them not think they are cool they aren't doing what others are doing you know? I didn't loose mine until I was 17 and I didn't have a choice because well. . . I was raped my first time. if it wasnt for that I probably wouldn't have lost it for a while longer I was in no rush and guys actually respected me for being a virgin. I still had fun with out having sex and it mad me feel good to say that I was a virgin.
Thats really sad =( did you know the guy that raped you? - A month ago
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Yeah I did. I had been dating him for a while actually. He was a year older than me & I really Liked him & for that fact I wanted 2 have sex with him.I thought I loved him but honestly it was way 2 soon 2 judge that & then when I told him I wanted 2 We were going 2 but it was horrible he was dropping me off @ home 2 my parents house & ya know people makeout before they go in but he decided sex was better I said yes @ 1st but then told him I wasnt ready but he did it anyways so - A month ago
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Thats terrible =( did you press chargers? - A month ago
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No . . . I never really told to many people this happened in like 11th grade and I just barely told my mom sorta a year ago. I have been malasted twice when I was younger and rapped once. Its hard to trust men now. and that's why I just hope that younger girls will realize its not a compition and its ok that you don't loose your virginity asap. Loosing my virginity in the front seat of a car horrible lol. I hope young girls become smart and just think before they act.. - A month ago
There's no point at all in losing their virginity at 14 other than that they have absolutely no moral values or care less about their self respects or betting married some day and having had 10++ sexual partners already. Why not let it spread it around that those girls are having sex so young and don't really care? So what if they accidentally get pregnant or catch some serious STD's? Maybe to them being a slut and shank will make them popular or happy or whatever. Well it will to guys that want them for only sex while pretending for a short while that they actually like them. But to answer your questions more directly I think they've losing it because they've been watching too many bad movies, listening to too much rap and reading too much crap and not being made to realize that that behavior is destructive and turn them into people they won't want to be like. They've probably never been taught good values and he importance of having a good character.
Someone did a number on you, didn't they? The sad thing is that the negative outlook on sex never goes away. It follows you into your adult life and you wonder why when you did everything right your sex life is so bad. The answer is simply, you believe that there is something inherently wrong with sex and being sexual. You'll find that those attitudes do more damage to you than the people you point them at (they'll eventually stop caring what you think). - A month ago
Why do people lose it so early? Hormones.Around that age they start kicking in, and certain things become experiences you want to try. Many go ahead, despite the fear of the act, the information they've been given, and the lack of maturity to handle the situation. It sucks, but there it is.
You also have to remember that in many cultures, this is a proper age to start having sex, looking toward marriage, etc. It used to be that way in almost all cultures. Waiting until you are 20 or so to get married or have sex has only become the norm in the past few centuries.
It's not something that will stop. If anything, I've seen it getting worse as birth control information continues to be distorted and young people that have no clue how to prevent pregnancy have sex. Or we just hear about it more. Either way, it won't ever go away. And they're usually not worried if people know about it, as if I remember correctly, when I was that age it was almost a status symbol, something you paraded to make yourself seem older and cool. Not true, but that's how it was.
Well, that's at your school. People only find out what you share with them. At my school, the only way people find out is if one of you tells, or the girl gets pregnant.
I'm 17 and a virgin. I'm not saving myself for anything (I don't see the point); I just haven't had the chance to lose it yet.
Why should it matter to anyone other than the person you sleep with? It's none of their business.
Ik but you knows guys..the first thing they do is tell all there freinds that you and him had sex? then everyone knows - A month ago
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Not all guys are like that. Besides, what does it matter? No one can *prove* that you all had sex. . . unless there's secret videotaping. - A month ago
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I live in a small town...what every is said is believed =( its really dumb - A month ago
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I've been re-reading the question, the answers given, and your responses to them. Did you (or someone you know) have a bad experience with something like this? - A month ago
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No..but a lot of people get pregnet here around 15-16 - A month ago
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I personally think that the rate's so high because many people don't think of the consequences of their actions before they do something. They live in the moment without giving a regard as to what could happen tomorrow. There are also a lot of pregnant girls and teenage parents around the town I live in. - A month ago
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