He Just Wants Me For Sex! What Do I Do??

"Is there a way to make those lusty feelings turn into genuine love?"'

R You FREAKING SERIOUS? according to your writing, he just started showing interest in you (all of a sudden). so then he tries to talk to you dirty. through txt.

rethink everything, you just also said you want to make ur first time special. turning some lusty feelings for love isn't a good idea

Let him know, point-blank, that he isn't getting into your pants. And all the naughtiness, that stops too.

If he's serious, he stays. If not, he goes. Either way, you'll know the score.

1. I'd clarify with him if he really does just want to sleep with you. Guys are attracted first to your sexuality and the way they show that is flirting and seeing how you respond. Take it as a compliment that he thinks that you are hot!
2. Youngish guys also find 'hanging around' with girls uncomfortable. It's hard for him too! Trust me, as a guy, if you feel hot with a girl, talking isn't easy! And if he REALLY likes you, rejection would be tougher than if he just wanted to have sex. So if I were you, I would tell him that you like him and how would he fancy going dancing with you? Don't ask him a second time, but then he will know that you want to go out with him, so if he asks you, he should be confident that you will say yes. Alternatively, tell a friend that you like him and why hasn't he asked you out? If they're your friend, they'll find a way to let him know how you feel.
3. Just like you need to get comfortable with the thought of having sex with him, he needs to get comfortable with the thought of how to talk to you and to understand your feelings. Believe you me, women are a mystery to men. What's obvious to you isn't obvious to him. Give him an easy in to ask you out and have some fun dates together. Only then start testing him.
4. If that doesn't work try: 'As a woman it feels to me like you just want to sleep with me. I'm not very experienced yet and I don't pretend to understand guys that well, but am I getting it totally wrong? I like you a lot but I don't want to just sleep with you. I respect you totally if that's what you would like but that's not for me, now or in the future. I hope you can find some girls who are ready for what you need right now.' That would close things out and, if he can't respect that, then I'm afraid you'll have to tell him to F*** Off! Jokingly the first time, firmly the second time and brutally, if necessary, the third time.

If you want sex, go with him. You don't say how you are presently addressing your sexual needs. Saving yourself for someone special is in reality a story concocted years ago by parents to try and keep their daughters from getting pregnant and dragging in another mouth to feed.
Having sex does not wear out your equipment. If you want it, do it. If you can take care of your own needs, don't do it. That special guy you waited for, rarely turns out to be the guy you will spend your life with.

If you don't know why you like him so much, that's probably reason enough NOT to pursue anything with him. Aside from that, though, if he makes no attempt to hang out with you and get to know you, he's a dog. He wants you for sex, and that's it. No matter how much you want it to, it will NOT turn into something long-term. Believe me, I used to act like this guy, and once you do the deed, he either won't contact you, or sex will be the ONLY thing he contacts you for.

Have enough self-respect to tell him he can't have you, that you're waiting for the right guy, and that HE ISN'T IT.

You have answered your own question. all he does want is sex, and sadly I don't thing that he currently sees you as anything more, as he is not displaying any signs of wanting to be with you on another level. Its had to say why you have such a crush on him, but if you leave it as it is it will end in tears, not for him but for you. you might be tempted to take it to the next level and have sex, holing that he will start to want to be with you more. BAD IDEA, it never works and then you are left with your first time being casual with someone who didn't care about you to begin with.

Your virginity is the only real thing that you alone get to keep and give away. make sure its worth while for you and you alone.

Sad as it is, there is someone out there who will be everything you want, and more. just believe in yourself that you have the right idea in finding him.

99% of a time if a guy wants sex, you aren't going to be able to turn those feelings into, "genuine caring". It's pretty much wishful thinking that he's going to change like that, he could, but the odds are slim to none.

Just tell him you aren't comfortable talking about "naughty" things and you DEFINITELY aren't interested in sending him pictures of yourself.

Nope, no way to change his thoughts. He's locked in on getting in you, and nothing you can do.

If I were you, I would forget him. He's not worth it, and he's probably trying to get with other girls at the same time.

As for making the ride easier, just remember that he only sees you as a sex object, not as the human being you are. Do you really want to crush on someone who only pay attention to certain parts of your body?