What is the best way to swallow?

The first thing I caught in here was his thinking that you don't respect him when in fact it's you that he doesn't respect. You're okay because you don't have to swallow if you don't want to. It should have absolutely nothing to do with your relationship nor his ability to enjoy a bj from you. Swallowing isn't a great thing to do but some girls still do it but that's up to them if they think that's what it takes to please their boyfriends. You could easily finish him off with a great hj and that should satisfy most respectable guys. Maybe you should ask him why that's such a big deal with him and what does that have to do with how much you love him? Wow I don't see any connection at all between love and swallowing. Maybe your relationship isn't a solid as you think it is if he's making such a big deal out of that as he is. But if you think you HAVE to swallow to save your relationship and you're willing to give in to him, then when he starts cumming, just swallow it as fast as you can and don't swish it around your mouth because then you'll start tasting I am told and have read. If you still are like ready to puke then you have to face the fact that he thinks more about you swallowing than he does about his relationship with you. A loving boyfriend would drop this issue.

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"I can't swallow, he thinks that I don't respect him and he is always making comments about other woman"

other woman? f*** them and him .who is he going out with you or them?
just because you don't swallow something that really isn't suppose to be swallowed don't mean ur disrespecting him. he's disrespecting you because he wants to make you do something you don't feel good doing

he pretty much has you exactly where he wants. if he feels you are scared to lose him he could start taking advantage of you.dont be scared of losing a loser

How do you know he thinks you don't respect him?

He's the one, in fact, that's disrespecting you. Run while you can.

Do what you want in your sex life.

But I think if you don't want to swallow, it's your choice.

It doesn't disrespect him to not swallow, and it's not the only way you can show you care.

honestly he sounds like an ass. you're TRYING to do this for him, you don't need to be doing it at all if that'll help him! I agree with you, it is REALLY hard to swallow, I've only really tried once and it was difficult. if he doesn't understand that its not easy and its something that we all get used to in our own time, tell him to get over it and go try it himself. you DEFINITELY don't need that crap.

I found that its easier if you sorta pull away a little and only have about half in your mouth, but then you also get the taste too. and that's not the best thing in the world. Its really hard to predict when its going to come or how much. so you can't be prepared. and its something that could be awesome if preparation was possible.

Good Luck. and don't let him push you around, if you want to do it go ahead. but don't do it just for him!