Guys: how far would you go?

if I met a girl on the net I would want to see how far I could go with her in a relationship (for that's what I want is a relationship not a f*** buddy). it would matter on how close I felt toward her before I say f*** it. I would like to find someone who is interested in some to all of my interests and for me to do the same for her.

as for your problem I would have to say that he might be playing with you or he might not know what he wants. sometimes us guys tend to think with our "yahoos" then our minds. I would have to say that you need to sit down with him and explain what you are feeling and what you want out of this and what does he want out of it. then go from there.

I wouldn't do it. If it seams he's just using you for sex, find someone you know a bit better and who you have a propper relation ship with. Your still young and a bad reputation of sleeping around can and will affect you.

Cyber relation ships are usually bad news. Its easy to seem sinceer over the internet when your really not.

This is a very interesting question. First, I don't think that if I met a girl on line I'd be wanting to sleep with her as first priority. Like you said, there's probably girls that live much closer for that especially if the guy is somewhat cool and good looking. If I was serious about a relationship with her it seems like I'd want to learn as much as I could about her first and having sex just isn't the first thing I'd be thinking of unless I was some sex prev. The conversations/letters online could go on for awhile as we'd keep getting closer and closer emotionally until we'd finally have to meet. As far as how long would I have to wait before saying "forget it" would depend so much on how much I'd fallen in love with her and the same for her with me and how far she lived and if this would ever involve a move and what my future plans were. There'd be so much that would have to taken in consideration. She'd have to be pretty damn special before I'd consider getting involved with her to where one of us would have to make a move to the others location. Let me add one more thing. I think if a guy was after sex online the girl shouldn't never let that happen because decent nice guys have enough going for them where they live to have to seek it online, so that should signal trouble. Hey, message me if you wanna talk about this more.