Okay so I've been sexually active with my boyfriend now for months. I'm somewhat experienced but he has never been sexual with anyone but me. It took him awhile to do it right and make it feel good but now it does and I couldn't be happier. Although, the other night we were in the dark and he was trying to "get it from the back" and he like couldn't get it in the right hole. He was almost in my butt but not really but he wasn't in my vajayjay either. Afterwards, I had blood on my underwear and I was sore. It happened again today too, but this time we were doing it normally. He was trying to enter but something went wrong and there was blood all over my dress. What the hell is wrong, and why is it just happening now. Sorry, if this was a bit graphic.
When you say blood all over your dress, do you mean like a huge flow of blood? In that case you need to see a doctor. If you mean bit of blood, more than usual but not, like, a haemorrhage, I'd say he probably caused a bit of trauma when he was fumbling, bless his heart, and it hasn't had a chance to heal yet. There is a lot of blood flow to that area and even the tiniest little insults can cause a lot of bleeding. Take a break for a few days and then see how you go.
Yeah, it's not like a flow of blood just more than I thought there should be I guess. I feel bad because he's really embarrassed and feels horrible about it, although he shouldn't. We're just new at it. haha. - A month ago
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I think his embarrassment is probably the worst that will come of it, I doubt there's any real damage done. Poor guy! - A month ago