I have read a lot of questions here from girls who have a big problem with pornography. What's up with that? Does it threaten you? Have you ever watched it alone or with your man?
I am aware of feminist arguments regarding objectification and violence, but a lot of what I am reading here doesn't seem to be rooted in that. So what is it?
i watch it all the time. I think tons of girls lie and say they hate it and that they don't watch when when in fact, they do. I knew a pastors daughter who watched it all the time but you wouldn't know by the way she acted.
I am a huge lover of pornography of all types - lesbian, straight, sadomasochism, hentai etc.
I don't feel threatened by it at all but I think that's because I have watched it for so long. If a guy was acting disinterested in me and only wanted sex after we'd watched porn then I'd feel angry. Other than that I love it, love to watch it alone and with friends and boyfriends.
I'm not sure I will truly understand the issue with pornography for many women - would love to see what others have to say on the subject though, especially those with a differing opinion.
it doesn't make a difference to me. I understand that guys have needs. I'd rather him be off doing it to some movie rather than with another girl. I'm neither here nor there on this issue. I'm not for it or against it. whatever makes him feel better =]
I don't mind if my boyfriend watches porn, because I do. I'm the type that goes about it as "if you are going to do it, then that gives me full right to do so. " But he's been giving it away lately saying that he can't get hard off it anymore. I compensate for it. But that's aside the point, I find porn pretty erotic when I'm not with him, or just to excite the moment a little more. Since I can pleasure him, and the porn also helps me. I'm not all to concerned about him being distracted by it whenever. basically, I like porn. No objection. It just depends on the girl I guess. As typical of an answer that is.
I don't have a problem with it as long as it's not interfering with the relationship (like the guy always seems distant during sex cause he's off in some fantasy land, or if it becomes an addiction where he's spending hours a day watching porn). In fact, I like porn, and I watch it myself and with my guy every so often. It can be a good way to learn what turns you on (and also get ideas on how to make sex even better)!
The main thing is balance and moderation. Obsession with porn is definitely a huge turn off, but moderate porn is normal.
I'm all for porn- I like anime porn better...more interesting! I guess some girls don't want their guys to look at other naked womens bodies, so guys don't have ideas to "wander" and find someone else. I think its a natural thing, just another fun thing to do.
I think that's a total misconception. I love porn, its the best foreplay lol. Girls like porn just as much as guys do, some girls might not want to admit it but its true!
I love porn! Ever since I was 12 when I found my dad's stash porn is hot, I watch it like once a week. That time of the week again :P. off to some porn!
Omg! What girl in their right mind would dislike or feel threatened by porn. i mean get real most porn is an amazing turn on for both guys an girls. n I actually have a lot of fun watching porn with my guy its just amazing what it will do for a relationship and besides its just hot watching people have sex and all. But as your watching it an getting all hot and turned on you just wanna have great sex with your man and all. Well I do anyways.
I don't have anything against porn, though a lot of it doesn't appeal to me personally. I have watched it with my ex and I definitely don't feel threatened by it. And personally for anyone who thinks it is degrading, I think watching commercials where it is always a woman washing the dishes or scrubbing the toilet is a lot worse.
It doesn't bother me and it doesn't bother me if my man watches it either. I actually find it to be a turn on but like I say to everyone else everyone is different and has their own preferences. Some may like it and deny it because they worry about what society will say about them or what their gf/bf may think.
Really most girls do not like porn until the first time they watch it. Ever since I saw the first movie that I did I have liked it. I noticed that it turned me on too and that I can learn from it.
I'm not opposed to it at all. Put yes, some girls may feel threatened. When you look at other women, they may interpret it as you don't like them, or no longer desire them. Plus they may not be so confident so other naked woman make them feel inferior.