Will guys have sex with any girl just because they want it and she's available, or do guys actually have to have some sort of attraction to the girl (meaning: will you have sex with any girl even if you don't like her or think she's pretty?)
For me there has to be an attraction. There's no point sleeping with someone if you don't find them attractive! Whether it's looks or personality, I know I couldn't sleep with an girl who had the personality of a spade and no real looks unless I was absolutely hammered and didn't know anything about it! I reckon most people have that point of view, both guys and girls.
Well. It depends. If you're just after sex, then probably it would be ok. But again you need at least one thing to get you going! Maybe body, or something else.
GrimReaper
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
I think that Starlina and Tammymac are just man bashing. ALL men will not just sleep with anything. There are a huge number of guys who just don't care but I can vouch for a bunch of guys who do have standards. I agree with you badgrl that they are referencing from experience but just because some men did that to them does not mean that ALL men will do the same.
Why don t you learn to read the whole story I wrote before you call me a man basher. NOWHERE in my comment does it say ALL guys. In fact it does say NOT ALL GUYS HAVE THIS MINDSET if you read it. Thanks. - 11 months ago
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curiousguy
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
I personally could never do that, I would have to be attracted to the woman in some way and have some sort of feelings for her.
thormoto45
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Some guys will sleep with almost...and I mean ALMOST whomever if they just want it. Sorry but it's true for a number of guys. not every guy but there doesn't always have to be that initial attraction.
I do not agree with either Starlina or TammyMac. In fact, I think this attitude and belief is one of the things wrong with women's view of gender relations. When you broadly assume that ALL guys are just looking to get laid, the guys who are just looking to get laid seem "normal" to you.
But that's not normal among the guys I know. My friends were all looking for girls in order to have a relationship, same as my brother, same as me. Sure we want to get some, but that doesn't mean that we don't have personal standards, beliefs, dreams, and goals.
I agree also, it irritates me when girls assume all guys want is sex. Sure, there are a lot of guys like that, but a lot of guys (my friends for instance) wouldn't just get with a girl "because they could". - More than a year ago
I think that Starlina and TammyMac are referencing from experience. Most men deny they do such things.Growing up with brothers and a cool dad I know different. We all cover for our trashy friends. No one is really right. Takes two to tango. - More than a year ago
Ever heard that term "pussy ain't got no face on it"?
i hadn't until my friend had me call and ask why this guy she had sex with never contacted her again. I don't think ALL guys are like that, but there are so many assholes out there that it's best to just treat 'em like *guilty until proven innocent*. I know that's bad for the remaining good guys out there, but how else are we not gonna get hurt?
sadakochik
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Not all guys are like that but I have met a few guys who have even told me they think that in their own words "P***Y is P***Y" Sorry for the words. Some guys are just losers that way. But there are a few decent guys out there.
Starlina
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
That's so true. Some guys don't really have a preference at all. Some guys it doesn't really matter if she's pretty or not. They look from the waist down. They look at the body image. So Yes guys will sleep with anything. That's not attracted.
Don't you just hate it when they don't bother to read exactly what you wrote but bash you on what they think you said. I see that you said SOME GUYS but SOME people just didn't bother to read that. Just like I say MOST guys have this mindset not ALL. - 11 months ago
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tammymac
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
Sorry to disappoint you, but to most guys, sex is just that sex. A lot of guys find it hard to understand why women need to complicate things by bringing feelings into it at all. And they don't have to like you to have sex with you, you don't have to be a knock out or even pretty, and it does not have to mean anything more to them then you just had sex.
And to be truthful about it, unless they have known you for a while, they most likely won't even remember your name, When their talking to their buddies you'll be the redhead or the girl with the big tits, or the girl they were with the night of Johns party. Not all guys have this mindset but I think most do. Unless they take the time to get to know you, you're just a f**k no matter how you feel about them.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
