Blow job drama.

Just do as he says. don't do it a lot. In fact, do it as little as you possibly can and instead do other things to him to make up for that. If he's really orally gifted like you say, just let him do that as much as he wants and get satisfaction pleasuring you. By now, he should be getting much pleasure every time he pleasures you and he should be happy that you let him go down on you as much as you do. You don't need to feel bad. It's not that necessary that couples in love have a relationship filled with doing every kind of sexual stuff imaginable. If fact, it can take away from the love because the relationship will start becoming too physical rather than emotional. No need to be hurting your jaw all the time getting headaches, and a good boyfriend will understand that and think of his girlfriend first and want to make things better for you. He seems understanding so let it be and always reassure him of your love.

dont do it. try handlobs with lube or something don't push you condition or just lick instead of swallow. Really though there are a million different ways you can pleasure him that don't require oral.

if he's fine with try to do it once in a while not always .

Well, certainly there needs to be a compromise 'cause you shouldn't have to go through this pain to give him the amount of oral you desire

I think you could do justice by giving him enhanced hand-jobs. But rather than just stroking him 'til he cums stroke him 80-90% of the time with the remaining time spent using your mouth. Make sure to keep his **** wet with your saliva the entire time. Your hand should be able to glide the entire shaft smoothly from the saliva as this will most closely mimic your mouth. Don't forget that since your other hand is free you can play with his balls, pinch his nipples, etc.

You can take this a step further by stroking, sucking and sitting on his dick and ride him for 10-15 seconds, then repeat. And if he likes to come in your mouth just be ready to end it that way. I think the constant change in sensations will drive him nuts. It would me. And, this is even the case with a just a normal blow job. A good blow job isn't just sucking his dick but incorporating some stroking every now and then. Because of your TMJ, you're just going to reverse the amount of sucking versus stroking.

If I was dating a girl that couldn't blow me until I came, I think this would be a great option. In fact, I may very well request something like this from my partner. It sounds like incredible fun.

Let us know how he likes it! :)

Don't use just your mouth- I never do.

Use your hands to stroke him, and just keep the tip in your mouth, or put the entire thing in your mouth. Use your tongue. You don't actually need to suck the entire time.

Another idea- you could give him a hand job, and just finish him up by swallowing.

If it hurts you all like that, stop. There's no need to injure yourself for sex. If he says it's okay that you don't do it as much, then take his word. If he wants head bad enough, he could go out and find another girl who can do it for them, but if he leaves you like that then you know you didn't need him. Just leave the oral play for him;-p