Ok so I have this boyfriend and we don't really get to see each other that often because we both go to different colleges and work full time. So every night we try to get on the computer and at least talk to one another. But he really wants me to talk dirty to him. And I'm not really sure of what to say. So guys what would you like to hear and girls what do you say to your guys?
You know, you got to be you. If you don't have things to say to him that just come naturally to you, then you need to tell him you are just not good at that particular gig. There are times when I am able to be more honest and 'dirty' with my girl than other times and I just respond honestly when I am not feeling the dirty side....like I might say 'I better not ...' when she asks me to tell her all about it.
I used to have a lot of problems coming up with stuff to say and being comfortable saying it. After a lot of research I've found the best way to start is to ease into by reading (or in your case typing) out a passage from an erotic story. that way he can give you feed back on the parts he likes, making it easier for you when you DO go to make it up yourself. I got a lot of info from this site: http://www.how-to-talk-dirty-to-my-boyfriend.com