Both, if I had to say one over the other then penetrate only because you get a closeness/solidity with weight that you can't get any other way. There is a reason missionary is the #1 position, you get to hold the person you love close and become one with them as much as any human can with another.
Then you move on to other positions but nothing beats that closeness and unity.
Blow jobs are fun and relaxing if she knows what to do, if not then it's just a great gesture of caring.
When you are in love, I like knowing that my girlfriend loves me so much that she wants some of me in her and that she is digesting some of me and that I have in a way become a part of her and given her some nourishment. This is what she said. She liked knowing that part of me was and is in her. She would think about it later, the warmth as it goes down her throat and the pleasure she could give me because she would suck hard each time that I ejaculated which gave me a 10 second orgasm. She liked knowing that she had control of me at that special moment. Wish we were still together. I will always love her for her tenderness and consideration. Hope this helps. Penetration is the best to give each other waves of pleasure.
penetrate. it feels so much softer and wetter. plus I don't need to worry about tiring her out too easily. lol. my gf's jaw can sometimes get sore if she sucks me too long.
Hmmmmmmmmm probably a blowjob. I love sex (if I remember correctly lol) but something about a blowjob where all the focus and attention is on me and only me. Sounds a little selfish but trust me it only happens once in a blue moon.lol
definitely penetrate. there aren't a whole lot of options for touching and feeling you when you're blowing me like there are if we were having sex. and you can kiss during/after sex unlike a blowjob where I would never kiss you considering my come is in your mouth or just was. mouthwash and a brushing of teeth would be in order and in a lot of cases that can kill a vibe. that doesn't mean stop giving blowjobs though lol. I just think sex feels better
You wouldn't want your own come (thats been in your body) to touch your mouth, but you'd let the girl have it in hers? - More than a year ago
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Yeah that's kind of how it works. Double-standard? Maybe. But that's called a "snowball" and is possibly the biggest no-no in world history. - More than a year ago
Sure hope some of your potential future dates read this. Would make for a very long dry spell before anything other than your own hand touched that penis of yours!!!!! - More than a year ago
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Surely you can't be serious. what kind of guys are YOU associating with that like making out with THEIR OWN CUM? you must be EXTREMELY hot if you're convincing dudes to TASTE THEIR OWN CUM. - More than a year ago
Typically, there's no need to kiss a woman during or after a blowjob anyways. It's usually, quick, dirty, and I usually have to do something right after that anyways xD - More than a year ago
Its clearly a mental thing... women should just suck it up (pardon the pun) and put up with it, and yet even though its from your own body and they seem to be dealing with it pretty well you couldn't bring your self to merely kiss after recieving a blowjob. Its not like she's going to put your come in your mouth, gee, if she was going to spit she would've. - More than a year ago
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Oddly enough that very thing happened to one of my best friends. she tried spitting the come into his mouth and it was such a SLAP IN THE FACE I think he slapped her in the face. - More than a year ago
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