Whats the big deal about anal?

Yes, definitely a double win for you. and your boyfriend. Very smart girl!

another thing to mention is that this can be a bit of a power and/or rough-play thing, too: some people get off (or enjoy) that aspect.

contrary to some of the other answers there are girls who like anal & can even find it more exciting than vaginal penetration. this could be due to the different sensation, the large clustering of sensitive nerves around the anus, and/or the feeling of sub/being overpowered (or of course some other reason of their own).

if you don't want to do something though, don't do it.

I agree, that the hole is to be used for something else other than sticking a penis in there! Why would a guy want to stick it in their in the first place where nasty things are, I don't know myself! I agree with you!

No, it's not just you. it's what most girls say. They say it's gross too. It's only a big deal to guys that don't know how to satisfy a woman completely the conventional ways. vaginal, giving her oral, etc. The reason some guys think it's such a big deal is because it's extra tight there and it's taboo, and they can get off quickly as well as there not having to use protection other than to prevent STD's. If you give in to that, he'll try talking you out of needing protection. Just say "no" cause you're not into that, and the next time he's starts that talk up again, just ask him to explain to you why he thinks it's such a GOOG thing for him and for YOU? That should end him asking anymore.

I have done it before and real sex is better. But if you don't feel like doing it you don't have to, he can't force you to ( I hope). If you want to try it and if you don't like it don't be afraid to stop half-way through. Its your body, not his. But girls do generally like it. Some girls say they wont, that they don't like the idea( like you) but they enoy it a lot.

a lot of guys like it because the anus if very tight around his penis, but as a teenager you should already been more than tight enough for any guy,

the main reason I think he may want to do it, is well, if you have anal sex, it means there's no chance you could possibly get pregnant from it, so its sex without the risk, however it can be very painful for a girl at first, or even completely feeling free, I would however say no to him if I were you, and if you really must, use a condom ((for easy clean up)) and use a TON of lubricant, as anal sex WILL hurt like hell unless you have lube (at least at first)

that being said, I'm a guy and I'm not a fan of anal, I might want to try it at some point but as of yet its not on my "to do" list,

your guy could even be a homosexual in the closet and your vagina actually scares him believe me it happens

1. Doggy style is a position for regular sex, it is not anal sex.

2. I don't know any girls who have ever enjoyed anal and most guys are dying to try it because they've listened to the hype and feel a sense of power is they're able to convince a girl to try it with them. The truth is, some guys love it, but most are pretty indifferent to the whole thing. One the one hand, they're psyched they tried it, but on the other hand, it's no better than regular sex, it's kind of gross, and it's almost always really unpleasant for the girl.

It looks like no one pointed this out so far, and maybe I'm way off track, but you said he wants to try it "doggy style", correct? Did he explicitly say that he was referring to anal? I ask because I know that doggy style is also a term used to describe vaginal sex while a man enters the woman from behind. If he clearly indicated that he meant anal, disregard this comment. However, if he simply said doggy style, maybe you need to clarify with him.

haha awesome. Once you say no, that should be that; or maybe just a one-shot discussion for him. But he was obviously perstering you to do it, so you're waaaay better off anyway! What a jackass lol

It's a whole different sensation for both people (but most girls, if they ever even try it, find it uncomfortable and/or painful). For the guy, it's a lot tighter, with a different texture.

That's a very out-there thing to do, especially at your age, so I'd say stick with your gut. If you find it gross, then I highly doubt you'd enjoy it, especially the first time.

If you do decide to try it; do it for you, not for him.

Keep in mind that, depending on your bf, if you are together, break up, whatever; he would prob have a hard time not bragging to the guys. So think about if you really want to walk into school one day, with everyone looking at you, because they heard.

Not comfortable with the idea, or disgusted by it? Easy. Don't do it.

Good luck.