Am I a Slut?

You're not a slut. But at your age you may be looked at as. Slut-ish (i. E soon-to-be-slut). If you find yourself preoccupied with sex (as in -- you think about it all the time) then perhaps you could try getting involved in other activities like sports, sport-bike riding, modeling, race-car driving, chess etc. That will not only help take your mind off sex until your partner is ready, but it will also have the added benefit of making you a more well-rounded and interesting person.

It's okay to want to be that close to someone. The fact that he said it's too fast doesn't suggest anything about you. He just meant that it's too fast for him. I doubt that he thinks badly of you.
You'll eventually find someone to be with, and it'll be great. Just keep your eyes peeled for a guy you like.

Please my dear, sex is a very grevious sin for singles. Just keep on subduing that sexual urge cause its the devil at work. Sex only means getting close to someone when You are married to him.

Don't rush it.

I don't know who called you a slut or what their frame of reference is, but it really just depends on how easily you put out. You can still be a slut without having intercourse.

But the funny thing about the word "slut" is that it's a highly subjective term. It's mainly used by people with a "holier than thou" attitude just so they can be hurtful and judgmental of people whose sexual activities are nobody else's business.

If the guy said you're going too fast, that's his issue. Respect it and don't take it personally. If it really bothers you, just ask what's wrong and try to understand where he's coming from.

Okay, your def not a slut because you want to have sex..your just horny. Its perfectly normal and every girl goes through it. I don't know why any guy would turn down sex. maybe he is a virgin and was scared of what might happen. but anyways you did nothing wrong. you're just getting older and are finally ready to have sex. and don't listen to everyone when they tell you to wait becuz sex could be a lot of fun with the right person.

You are young. Sex is a big thing. Your 1st time should be with someone you care about. Losing your virginity is a step into womanhood. Your hormones are just taking over, you need to step down. Consider masturbating. The guy obviously cares about you for putting sex on hold. When the two of you are ready make sure your prepared.

You are ready to have sex but don't let your hormones control you or you'll become a nympho (sex fiend) meaning that you can't stop having sex. I was like that at one point and there's always a trigger to stop. Its probably because you wanna know how it feels and it feels great when its with the right person.

No, I do not think it is wrong! You just want to know what it feels like to be as close to someone as you can! If that makes you a slut to some people then maybe those people have never had a boyfriend they really love.

Nope certainly not. Sluts really suck because they just get all the action they want and leave us girls to just want it more and more! It's not wrong to want sex really bad. Everyone does!